frederickkk Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Photo of her and someone else as whatsapp profile picture. I have a restraining order. I can't break it.
jesse93 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Photo of her and someone else as whatsapp profile picture. I have a restraining order. I can't break it. why look at her pictures man? its only going to hurt you even more, you need to stop looking at her pics, stop trying to talk to her completely you'll just get hurt even more in the long run. 1
Sugarkane Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Everybody gave you much good advice here, which you continually ignored. 1
Renard99 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 The fact that you're still looking at her profiles a year after the break up shows nothing more than the fact that you are totally and utterly bringing this on yourself. As Sugarkane has said, you completely ignore all advice given to you. I’m confused as to why you continue to be surprised by the way things are playing out. Your outright refusal to change has resulted in you being in the position your find yourself in. She's put a restraining order on you and moved on....... How much more of a message from her do you need before your see that you should be moving on too? 1
reddragon588 Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 I do not know your story but I can glean from other posts. I would highly suggest you try seeing a therapist. The first breakup I went through took me about a year to get over. It was probably the worst year of my life. I did not take it to the point of receiving a restraining order, but I refused to get over it, and it drove me a low point regarding drugs and alcohol. At some point you have to ask yourself how long you want to feel this way. How long do you want to struggle with this before moving on? Ask yourself this question. It sounds as though you've already let it go on for a year. Do you want to feel this way another year? Another 2 years? Another 5 years? How about another 6 months? My guess is that your answer to all those is no. You can only start to move on when you make the decision to start trying to. 1
Echo000 Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 i just read through almost ALL of your posts...i was fascinated. It was repulsive but i couldnt stop reading. jesus christ. a man who has tortured himself for a year straight. You literally have NOTHING left. I really feel for you man. wow. May God (or whatever you believe in) watch over this guy frederick. wow. wow. wow. 1
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