lovesux1 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Currently i have alot going on that could probably help someone else while i need some advice Dumpee perspective: I have a previous thread about being dumped out of a short term relationship due to my girlfriend being stressed and not able to handle a relationship right now. Currently im 5 weeks no contact and although im getting better i still want her back. She was amazimg and everything i was looking for Dumper perspective: A 2 year long distance relationship.. Long distance relationships are a strain. She lives 3 hours away and im a single dad with a son so it was very hard to maintain. She is a great woman but the distance plus she wasn't ambitious or fun and exciting for me.. I had a talk with her and told her we should consider dating other people for a while.. This hurt her but i didnt know what else to do. We went LC for about a couple weeks before i met my ex (previously mentioned) my ex was fun exciting ambitious and local. This grabbed all my attention from my ldr. And our contact became scarce. Until i got dumped. I went no contact with both for a couple weeks before i reached out to my "ldr". What ive learned is with my ldr, the more she backs off the more i want to contact her so i dont lose her. When she initiates contact i back away abit for fear of hurting her with my confusion. Right now im trying my best to do nothing because my local ex is still in my heart. If only i could fast forward 1 month sigh...
Eddie Edirol Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 you dont do anything wiht either of them, and start finding girl #3 to take your mind off the other two.
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