BlissfullyWhich Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 I have a story to tell, but I'm not quite ready to tell it. The wife of the MM I've been involved with for about 16 months called my cell number, disguised as an incorrect dial. I found it bizarre but did not think of it again. An hour later he called, demanding to speak to someone (not me). I didn't catch on, but I heard her in the background yelling "This sounds fishy to me." Eventually I figured it out, tried to fix it up for him but it didn't work. The next day he called me and told me she'd gone to the phone company to upgrade her phone and found my number hundreds of times (and this was only one month of calls). Then commented to him that he'd sent 25 texts to me in just one day. All of this to say, that a week ago she found out (D-Day). I found this forum on day 2 and for that I will forever be grateful. You all have given me insight and support without my having to write a word. I guess when I'm feeling more confident, I'll tell the whole story. But for now, I'm just going to keep "listening" to your stories and advice. I guess maybe I'm better if something is drawn out in me to comment on if that's even interesting. I'm sure I may chime into a chat with a question, so you may see me pop up. But again, it's comforting to know others are at this very moment are going through similar situations. I'm fine for now. I've been keeping busy and work is a welcome relief. Until next time.....
LilGirlandOW Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Keep Reading, hope you're doing well and hope to hear your story as soon as you're ready to share it and p.s. knowing how many texts a WS sent is a possibility?! *gulp* hope my MM's BS never find that out. All of our cellular communication is done via a phone account linked to her phone.
Author BlissfullyWhich Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 Thanks for your support. You'll all get it out of me soon. It's nothing unique, just the same old story. I went into this knowing I'd want to get out. I guess I never considered he'd get caught. I guess that's why I'm here. LOL Just stunned! I imagine there was a suspicion there already from her. My mother and I share a phone, but it never occurs to me to check who she's called or sent texts to since I added her. We both (MM and BSW) use the same phone company, which made communication cheap by cell phone, but unfortunately for him, easy to track.
LilGirlandOW Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 It's nothing unique, just the same old story. Our stories are all unique, like snowflakes, they only look the same from far away or to the ignorant. ((HugS)) 1
Author BlissfullyWhich Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 Thanks LilGirl (is that how your name is shortened for brevity? LOL)! I did find out a lot about myself during this time. I guess yes, my story is unique. I guess we'll see how it finally ends, because it's not quite finished. I'm not angry, feeling any sort of guilt or sad. Is it that I'm numb from shock? Or am I really that insensitive? I guess I never took the time to ask about the BW. I compartmentalized. His married life seemed so separate and distant from everything else.
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