KoKo0 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 When I was at the breaking point with my ex, I meet this guy and started seeing him after breaking up with my now ex. It was too soon, but I really enjoyed this guys company and affection. Anyway, seeing him for 2 months now, I sleep over some nights, have sex alot ... and lots of other sexy ****. anyway we have a good time, but found out he was seeing a "friend" and i keep fitting little pieces together and when something comes up or so, i would HINT him about this "friend", that i'm no fool. i know they havent had sex (i think), that she knows about me, but she is kept a secret to me apparently. but like i said ive been seeing him 2 months.. ive been seeing my guy friends as well, so im not really worried about it... open mind opinions..... lets hear it
aussietigerwolf Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 hmm... a "friend" that is kept a secret from you... the most innocent I could think with that is he's embarrassed of you or maybe her.
Ninjainpajamas Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 He's sleeping with you and this "friend" or he very well will soon be from the sound of it. Your biggest mistake is jumping into something after/during your relationship obviously, and that's easy prey for any guy who's got some experience and you're definitely looking for a distraction/rebound...let's just say it's shetty way of coping and usually leads to the wrong kind of relationships. This guy likely isn't available, you sound like a FWB, likely just like the other girl will become. You already got your fix for for company, affection and sex...you should just get out of this and recollect yourself and figure out your last relationship and properly and emotionally close out that history so you can move on, and not just rebound. 1
BradJacobs Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Are you sleeping with your friends that you see?
Author KoKo0 Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 Are you sleeping with your friends that you see? No, well ... I had a steamy night with the guy my most recent ex, accident, he doesn't know this but of course he asked me more than once has my ex tried to contact me or have I spoken to him.
Author KoKo0 Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 He's sleeping with you and this "friend" or he very well will soon be from the sound of it. Your biggest mistake is jumping into something after/during your relationship obviously, and that's easy prey for any guy who's got some experience and you're definitely looking for a distraction/rebound...let's just say it's shetty way of coping and usually leads to the wrong kind of relationships. This guy likely isn't available, you sound like a FWB, likely just like the other girl will become. You already got your fix for for company, affection and sex...you should just get out of this and recollect yourself and figure out your last relationship and properly and emotionally close out that history so you can move on, and not just rebound. I wouldn't say it is a rebound, I do like the guy and this is kind of eating at me that I have snooped around and found out about this other person, it just doesn't make sense that he has already talked to her about me, she knows about me, her messages clearly imply that "where is your woman" and so on..but something stinks? I dont want to tell him how I found out, and not to sound like a crazy b.tch, since we've been only seeing eachother 2 months, its still new.
Author KoKo0 Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 This is a very important question. Why is it an important question? please tell....
Author KoKo0 Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 hmm... a "friend" that is kept a secret from you... the most innocent I could think with that is he's embarrassed of you or maybe her. I don't feel as he is embarrassed of me, I met his friends, the people he spends time with, his family, on more than one occasion and he does introduce me as his girlfriend. I have seen this "friend "of his the other day, she is beautiful, not that he would be embarrassed of her either but I just can't understand the situation. Maybe if something else slips up, to confront him about the whole thing? I would like to see if things can go further but who knows. ... if he plans to continue with me, then there can't be this "friend" of his. I do know they have met up occasionally , i read his text messages...oh well i had to just to make sure.
Drseussgrrl Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Oh the tangled webs we weave. Do you thrive on having this sort of drama in your life?
Treasa Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 You two sound like FWB who don't talk about their other FWBs. You're ok with sleeping with him but you can't ask him about this other girl? Either you're ok with being in this type of situation, or you aren't. If you are ok with it, then have fun and stay safe.
Author KoKo0 Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 Oh the tangled webs we weave. Do you thrive on having this sort of drama in your life? no, agreed.
tbf Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Let me get this straight. While still with your b/f, although your relationship was on the rocks, you met this guy, broke up with your b/f (did the guy know you had a b/f?) and started dating him.Now you've discovered that he has a secret female friend on the side through stalking and are worried about her.But you also have male friends (does this guy know about your male friends?) of which one is your ex who you had a steamy night with but haven't told the guy you're dating about. Is this an accurate portrayal of the situation?
Author KoKo0 Posted August 3, 2013 Author Posted August 3, 2013 Let me get this straight. While still with your b/f, although your relationship was on the rocks, you met this guy, broke up with your b/f (did the guy know you had a b/f?) and started dating him.Now you've discovered that he has a secret female friend on the side through stalking and are worried about her.But you also have male friends (does this guy know about your male friends?) of which one is your ex who you had a steamy night with but haven't told the guy you're dating about. Is this an accurate portrayal of the situation? Yes, the ex i had a nighter with was the guy i was dating when i met this current guy (we accidntly bumped into eachother, one thing led to another and so on). He knew he was my boyfriend, he knew all about him, but he didn't try anything, he didn't touch me until i let him so. he says things about 4-5 months from now, planning with me . i dont know what i will eat tomorrow, not even looking that far out :bunny:
tbf Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 Yes, the ex i had a nighter with was the guy i was dating when i met this current guy (we accidntly bumped into eachother, one thing led to another and so on). He knew he was my boyfriend, he knew all about him, but he didn't try anything, he didn't touch me until i let him so. he says things about 4-5 months from now, planning with me . i dont know what i will eat tomorrow, not even looking that far out :bunny:So you emotionally cheated on your ex-b/f with this new guy, then physically cheated on the new guy with the ex-b/f and now are concerned about the new guy cheating?
Author KoKo0 Posted August 3, 2013 Author Posted August 3, 2013 So you emotionally cheated on your ex-b/f with this new guy, then physically cheated on the new guy with the ex-b/f and now are concerned about the new guy cheating?[/QUOT you're good....
Author KoKo0 Posted August 3, 2013 Author Posted August 3, 2013 So you emotionally cheated on your ex-b/f with this new guy, then physically cheated on the new guy with the ex-b/f and now are concerned about the new guy cheating? you're good....
tbf Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 you're good.... With html tags? Yes. There's always something under the hood so rather than buying battery after battery and wasting money, I prefer to change the alternator. Unfortunately, the site's rules and guidelines require me to change batteries. 1
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