If someone did this to you would you feel cheated on?

[LuxAri6]

I've been talking to this guy I met online for a couple weeks. We went out on a date once and have talked on the phone a few times and we text a little. We get along well and conversation is nice, but I'm not sure that I'm all that attracted to him or would want to start a relationship. I'm giving him a chance though. I don't want to rush into anything with him, but a girl still has needs. I've had this friends with benefits for a couple months now to satisfy those needs and it's working out well. Would it be wrong or would you consider it sort of cheating if I still slept with my FWB while "talking" to the other guy?

[CloverField1227]

Do you feel like you could give up the FWB if things ever get serious with this guy?

 

I told my one of my ex's I'd give up cigarettes when I joked about her becoming my GF one day. I never gave up the cigarettes but I did give her up.

[KoKo0]

No, you are dating people, we are not only going to bond relations with one person for the rest of our lives.

 

If things started getting serious between you two, then i would cut off the FWB.

[veggirl]

FFS how "needy" are you? You can't go a month or so without sex while you feel things out with this guy? Do you have fingers? A shower head? A vibrator...? I mean seriously. Would you like it if a guy you were getting to know/dating was ****ing another girl?

[CC12]

Would it be wrong or would you consider it sort of cheating if I still slept with my FWB while "talking" to the other guy?

 

I don't think it would be wrong. You've been on one date with this new guy and have only known him for a couple of weeks. Why should you change your normal routine for a virtual stranger?

 

You shouldn't hide the fact that you're dating other guys, though, but at this point I wouldn't mention it unless it came up.

[runningfar]

I would think it's a little off at the least and distracting. I would stay away from the other guy while you're getting to know someone new.