Sleepwalk Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 So,the truth about this place,it can't be said that it has few members.The same thing about the advices,everyone has found answers to their problems on here,with love and such.My question is,did the answer you get,help you get something positive in the long run,or you wish you wouldn't have troubled yourself in such a place?
daftpunk Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 This is a sub-forum that intrinsically attracts the heartbroken and the jaded. Neither are a particularly positive bunch. Their advice is, perhaps unsurprisingly, usually a bit melancholy. Their advice works because disappointment is not a possibility of human existence-- it's an eventuality of human existence. You will be hurt eventually. And you will get over it. So, whether you use their advice as a catalyst to something "better" is always up to the individual.
JourneyLady Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 It's always helpful to me to know other people are going through or have gone through the same thing. Though we have our differences here, there is a sort of camaraderie that is helpful. Then, when we're not going through heartaches, we get to parent the new ones coming in with helpful advice. Kind of a "Pay it Forward' kind of thing. :-D
Helloprincess Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 It helps me to realise i am not alone! And that makes me feel better. I ask myself pretty often: why me? Why did he leave me? Etc etc... And then i realise that there's a bunch of people going throught the same pain!
AllTooWell Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 It helped me understand my break up and realize I'm not alone. Made me want to stop wallowing in agony and get it over with. When I give advice to people I do genuinely care and feel for them. I don't want ANYONE to be hurt or hurting - but the fact is this happens to everyone.
reddragon588 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 This forum has helped me a lot since I found it. You have to talk through breakups, if you leave it bottled up inside it will just explode and cause you more pain and more trouble. Trust me, I've done this before in previous breakups and it literally broke me. However, as important as it is to talk about it, I am of the opinion that I can't constantly talk about it to my friends and family. While I do seek a lot of advice and comfort from them, I do know that eventually they will get tired and frustrated with me if it is all I talk about to them. That is why this forum is helpful for me. It allows me to seek advice from others as well and pursue other topics with my family and friends in addition to asking for help through my breakup.
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