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I would call. And I would call with a definite message, "are you free to see me Sunday afternoon at 1pm". If I don't hear back in a reasonable amount of time I will move forward with my time and if she got back late I would let her no that since you hadn't heard the time was taken up by something else.

 

The invitation windows have expiration dates on them. I am very busy and would /do need a man to understand I am a professional as well so I have to travel, work long hours, etc. But I will also try and respect his feelings/interests and stay in some level of contact.

 

But if our desire levels of communication doesn't match up, well it just doesn't match up. To each their own.

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I would call. And I would call with a definite message

 

 

When I texted her and asked "when are you free later...I'll call and we can setup plans for this weekend" there isnt a damn thing wrong with that.

 

Any of you that make excuses over that are doing it because you have no other angle to argue.

 

We are both adults....and I sent that text out of respect knowing she is busy.

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Consider quality vs. quantity...

 

In my book....theres no quality at all when a person has no consideration for others

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Update:

 

Its now been over 24hrs since her last contact with me.....stating "she would enjoy getting together this weekend"

 

I've now had I think 4 women pull this sh*t on me....even though they say they want to meet.

 

And then....a few days after the intended meeting day....they tell me that some member of their family got sick, or was in the hospital....or some story like that.

 

I think thats becoming the catch-all story.....they think if they use family+hospital.....it wards off the chance of the guy being mad at them.

 

Classic bull sh*t tactics

 

 

 

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When I texted her and asked "when are you free later...I'll call and we can setup plans for this weekend" there isnt a damn thing wrong with that.

 

Any of you that make excuses over that are doing it because you have no other angle to argue.

 

We are both adults....and I sent that text out of respect knowing she is busy.

 

Dude, lighten up, did you read the rest of the post?

 

 

If it is so frustrating, you have nothing invested in this so move on. You two are meshing up, good thing to see before things even start, and thank your lucky stars that you aren't farther involved.

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Have you tried It's Just Lunch, for a new dating route? It's not the cheapest but I have heard from a number of people who have liked it and it is setting up face to face meetings right away.

 

Might be a good route to go.

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I think the thing is, that time is dragging on and we havent met yet. We dont even know if we are compatible.

 

With her time reference....it is taking 2-3 weeks just to make plans to meet

 

With most people...we would have made it through the emails, texts, phone calls and face to face meet in less than 2 weeks.

 

You get what I'm saying? How many weeks does this need to go on and we havent even met yet.

 

Its like when 2 people have a conversation via text....and it takes 15 mins to send messages back and forth....when the whole conversation could of been done over the phone in less than two mins.

 

Exactly...so why persist with seeing her if you feel this way? :confused: Just pass on it.

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Exactly...so why persist with seeing her if you feel this way? :confused: Just pass on it.

 

I already gave up on Friday. This past few days was the first(and last) attempt to meet in person.

 

Since Friday the posts have been updates as things transpired.

 

Any bets on whether she ever replies back?? Sunday, Monday, never?

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I already gave up on Friday. This past few days was the first(and last) attempt to meet in person.

 

Since Friday the posts have been updates as things transpired.

 

Any bets on whether she ever replies back?? Sunday, Monday, never?

 

Who cares? Just next her at this point.

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I already gave up on Friday. This past few days was the first(and last) attempt to meet in person.

 

Since Friday the posts have been updates as things transpired.

 

Any bets on whether she ever replies back?? Sunday, Monday, never?

 

If you gave upon Friday, why does it matter if she ever replies?:confused:

 

I don't think you and this lady are a match, so I'd cut all my losses and not bother to worry about her replying.

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I'd cut all my losses and not bother to worry about her replying.

 

 

I was being funny....thats why it said "Any bets?"

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Have you tried It's Just Lunch, for a new dating route? It's not the cheapest but I have heard from a number of people who have liked it and it is setting up face to face meetings right away.

 

Might be a good route to go.

 

 

Thats the last thing I would ever need is some bullsh*t artist/matchmaker meeting me to determine what kind of women is right for me.

 

What a f'n joke....I just checked out their site. You have to meet your date at a handful of "specified" restaurants. All of them are an hour and a half away, and all of them are high end, expensive steak houses and seafood types. Real smart....lets drive an hour and half and overpay for everything we eat and drink....with almost no chance of anything ever transpiring between us.

 

 

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Well then good luck with your current modus operandi. Seems to be serving you well.

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Well then good luck with your current modus operandi. Seems to be serving you well.

 

I second that! All those in favor??

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