Proof Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 So I'm not sure what to make of this. I work with a woman who has a boyfriend but she may also be interested in me. I'll leave it up to you guys to decide. This has been going on for a few months. We were at a staff party and on numerous occasions this woman was looking at me. We had a sit down meal, but once that was over and the Karaoke started she called my name out to come and sit in the seats next to her and the others. Soon enough she came over to where I was and started chatting. At the bar I'm ordering drinks with other teachers but she is at the other end of the bar and I can see her looking over in my direction even while she's speaking to others. The other instance was when we were out for drinks with coworkers when a spot opens up next to me she comes over and talks to me. As we are talking I can see that this girl is looking at my lips. Also whenever she would go to the bathroom some of my coworkers would say that "she's on it tonight." Finally, we are out again for leaving drinks with colleagues. It's not until later in the evening that we start talking and again I can see that she's looking at my lips and mentions something interesting to me. I texted her a few weeks beforehand asking what she was up to on a Friday night. Anyway she brings this up and says in a roundabout way that she'd be up for it at some point. The other people there (a different set of people from before) mention that they can tell she's into me. Other people kinda guessed that I was into her and said that we would be a great couple. But I wonder if this girl knows. Anyway, I'm not sure if she just considers me a friend or more. She does have a boyfriend after all. She has mentioned to me that they have been together for a few years now and he wanted to move in together but she said no. Your thoughts please. Thanks.
sdraw108 Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 So I'm not sure what to make of this. I work with a woman who has a boyfriend <snip> The rest is irrelevant. Then again, if you're the kind of guy who doesn't care about the boyfriend, and she's the kind of girl who will cheat on him, then maybe you deserve each other
Woop1337 Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 From what you say, i would say she is interested in you. Women with boyfriends are off limits. And another thing, some people at work notice the sparks between the two of you? That's a bad look, She has a man.
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