holler21 Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 hey, i need some advice! i posted a while back, was in a LDR wit my bf but he broke up wit me on messenger bout 2 weeks ago i knew it was gna be hard but i didnt fink it wud end so quickly, so obviously im really upset me and him have stopped callin each other, but dese past 2 weeks we've bin texting every night just to ask how one another is, so we av bin having contact, but i just dont know what to do next, hes back home for a week, came back last night and he texted me saying hes on his way home, i really wanna see him but im waiting for him to say sumthin first, he hardly has any friends and before he went to uni we used to go out clubbing together and he used to make friends with mine (i have loadz ), but i duno if we'l still hang out like that i also really want to kiss him! when he broke it off with me, i mentioned the idea of **** buddys, etc. but avnt mentioned it since, he said "yeah maybe"....and then asked me what we shud do! but i know hes stressed with uni so said we'd chat properly when he was back, and now hes back for a week but what do i say and do??! R xx
aJoy Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 Hmmm... well, I think maybe if it's not going to hurt you terribly as a result of it, then you should see him... see how you feel around him and just let whatever happens happen... (it might be fun for you) or, if you're hurt already, and you're confused and things are going great for you w/o seeing him... then, maybe you should just say hello and tell him you're busy or do a lunch or something simple like that. I don't know if it's such a good thing that he said 'maybe' to the idea of being **** buddies... which by the way, I think is killer for girls to do (generally speaking) because we are a bit more emotional than guys and having relations kinda messes (me) girls up in the head a lil bit, even if you don't want to really admit it to yourself. My advice is: see him if you won't feel hurt or if you can handle it and you really want to see him and try to abstain from sex as it might cause you problems when he leaves.... hope that helps at all.
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