terminus1256 Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 Hey guys, So I've been seeing this girl for about a month and I'm concerned that she might be stringing me along. We have hooked up a few times (no sex) and things seem to be going good but it's been a while and she still doesn't seem interested in exclusivity. At what point (or time) of avoiding that sort of commitment does it become obvious that she is really just stringing me along? Am I worrying about this too early?
CherryT Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 If you want to be exclusive, why don't you just ask? About a month is still pretty early... after 2-3 months, she could be stringing you along. But right now she's just assessing whether you're something she wants to be exclusive with. Have you talked about what you're looking for? Has she? When I first met my SO, I told him I'm not the kind of girl to "hook up" with a guy. I'm a relationship type of girl. He knew from the get go what I was looking for. So after dating for a few months, we talked about where we thought our relationship was and both expressed we wanted to be exclusive.
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