Confused_Soul_23 Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 I made the mistake of keeping in LC for the first month. Now been a couple of weeks complete NC. I want to know if anyone else after making the initial mistakes and then going full NC has heard from the ex? If so how long was it before they did make contact.
lula69 Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 I made the mistake of keeping in LC for the first month. Now been a couple of weeks complete NC. I want to know if anyone else after making the initial mistakes and then going full NC has heard from the ex? If so how long was it before they did make contact. Are you using NC as some sort of technique to make them contact you?
LordSquidworth Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 I made the mistakes for a week. Then went NC for a week and a half. NC was just to clear my head. Then sent an apology email. She's slowly talked more and more to me, but whenever she feels rushed she shuts down for a few days.
Jenny1234 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 I made the mistakes for a week. Then went NC for a week and a half. NC was just to clear my head. Then sent an apology email. She's slowly talked more and more to me, but whenever she feels rushed she shuts down for a few days. So are you back in LC?
Simon Phoenix Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 I made the mistakes for a week. Then went NC for a week and a half. NC was just to clear my head. Then sent an apology email. She's slowly talked more and more to me, but whenever she feels rushed she shuts down for a few days. A week-and-a-half NC doesn't do anything for either party. I mean, that's basically a vacation. 1
Talulah Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 I had to be LC for about a month and a half. The we talked once and e-mailed. I've been full NC for the past three weeks. I realized that after talking to him, that maybe I was helping him get over me, but then he called me babe and I had to cut the conversation short.
LordSquidworth Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 So are you back in LC? She pretty much calls/texts daily since then. I don't initiate anything. Someone told me let the girl come to me, so I don't do much. A week-and-a-half NC doesn't do anything for either party. I mean, that's basically a vacation. Every situation is different. We're in LC, but not in close proximity. I moved out of my place in the city (just graduated) and back to my parents in the countryside. Hour+ between us. I spend my days by the pool or out at the lake, which has helped a lot.
Author Confused_Soul_23 Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 We both decided that to stop contact was the best for us both, but I am struggling. She is the one who isn't sure what she wants. As of the weekend it will be 3 weeks. I have been so close to caving in this week. Last weekend she blocked me on a SN site then unblocked me a few hours later. Was she trying to get my attention to contact her?
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