Ex makes contact, we each other, and now what?

[walkthisway]

My ex gf tried calling two weeks ago and I didn't answer. It texted "what's up" and she said it was a mistake.

 

I had to take care of some business and made contact last week and she immediately emailed saying she wants to meet up to talk about this business. We caught up for two hours that went great despite she not asking anything about what the business she so wanted to hear about. I asked h She spent the whole time telling me how amazing life was for her and over hyping everything in her life. It was almost a show-off for her, but she did make physical contact and gave me a huge hug good-bye - as in held on for a good 30 seconds. And said we'll see each other soon. I played it as it really felt - good and I'll see you soon. I did ask her about the call the week before and she said that she was calling because she was feeling down and wanted a confidence boost.

 

The next night, Friday, she texts me at 12am asking how I'm doing - knowing I was in the neighborhood and she wanted to catch up. I didn't get it until much later and when I was responding the next morning she texted me at the same time, 9am. The whole two days were extremely amicable. Even her mother, who she lives with, texted me asking to catch up to talk about life. Things felt great like they were starting to fall back into my court. Life felt awesome. I felt possibility there.

 

No contact Sunday and today I asked her how here weekend was thru text. No response. I sent it early afternoon.

 

So where I'm at... She broke it off with me two months ago. It wasn't pretty and it was confusing. I was getting over her altogether but this recent weekend has thrown me for a major loop. Now she's on my mind - and she's a huge game player.

 

My question for any women on here: is this signs of her missing me and bring afraid to confront me and want to kick things back up? Is this her needing an ego boost? My life has completely transformed and I have new women in my life but I can't seem to get over this two year relationship we were in. I really do love this girl. I'm not in the needy state - or having been until how I feel now. I want to kick up a true friendship with her. Do I ask her? Do I lay low? To not respond to my light hearted text feel really odd - the logic says I deserve much better yet I can't help but miss and love her. And when we saw each other she was showing signs of really being happy to see me. It really felt like we had a real chance at a new start - even had a project to work on together that she sounded excited to do with me. Am I playing myself?

 

If anything I need to get this off my chest somewhere. Reading this thru it says move on all over it. But I really have serious feelings for her and she's not a very open and communicative person - something tells me that she might think she messed up so badly with how she reacted in situations that she is afraid of being rejected by me now. I dunno. Screw it. I'm really too old to be writing things like this. But the heart and logic never seem to work together.

[aloneinaz]

My ex gf tried calling two weeks ago and I didn't answer. It texted "what's up" and she said it was a mistake.

 

I had to take care of some business and made contact last week and she immediately emailed saying she wants to meet up to talk about this business. We caught up for two hours that went great despite she not asking anything about what the business she so wanted to hear about. I asked h She spent the whole time telling me how amazing life was for her and over hyping everything in her life. It was almost a show-off for her, but she did make physical contact and gave me a huge hug good-bye - as in held on for a good 30 seconds. And said we'll see each other soon. I played it as it really felt - good and I'll see you soon. I did ask her about the call the week before and she said that she was calling because she was feeling down and wanted a confidence boost.

 

The next night, Friday, she texts me at 12am asking how I'm doing - knowing I was in the neighborhood and she wanted to catch up. I didn't get it until much later and when I was responding the next morning she texted me at the same time, 9am. The whole two days were extremely amicable. Even her mother, who she lives with, texted me asking to catch up to talk about life. Things felt great like they were starting to fall back into my court. Life felt awesome. I felt possibility there.

 

No contact Sunday and today I asked her how here weekend was thru text. No response. I sent it early afternoon.

 

So where I'm at... She broke it off with me two months ago. It wasn't pretty and it was confusing. I was getting over her altogether but this recent weekend has thrown me for a major loop. Now she's on my mind - and she's a huge game player.

 

My question for any women on here: is this signs of her missing me and bring afraid to confront me and want to kick things back up? Is this her needing an ego boost? My life has completely transformed and I have new women in my life but I can't seem to get over this two year relationship we were in. I really do love this girl. I'm not in the needy state - or having been until how I feel now. I want to kick up a true friendship with her. Do I ask her? Do I lay low? To not respond to my light hearted text feel really odd - the logic says I deserve much better yet I can't help but miss and love her. And when we saw each other she was showing signs of really being happy to see me. It really felt like we had a real chance at a new start - even had a project to work on together that she sounded excited to do with me. Am I playing myself?

 

If anything I need to get this off my chest somewhere. Reading this thru it says move on all over it. But I really have serious feelings for her and she's not a very open and communicative person - something tells me that she might think she messed up so badly with how she reacted in situations that she is afraid of being rejected by me now. I dunno. Screw it. I'm really too old to be writing things like this. But the heart and logic never seem to work together.

 

Sadly, you answered your own question here. If you have someone new in your life, focus on them because this ex is and should be in your past. They way you describe her, says all you need to know. Let her be someone else's problem now and if I was you, I'd ignore her going forward.

[Inviv_girl]

You already have new woman and yet still think so badly about your ex- ? what is the reason you be with this new woman at the first place? If you are not over your ex- yet then I suggest don't jump into another woman yet, because this is not fair for her to put her in this situation. This new woman also human who have heart, don't use her to mend your broken heart and loneliness. You wouldn't want to be her would you?!