UCFKevin Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 So a few months back, June I think it was, I met this girl when I was doing that reporter thing for the Martin Lawrence movie. Very sweet girl, fun, smart, easy to talk to, had a boyfriend. Typical story of my life. We talked every day and hung out alot on the set but she had a boyfriend so I didn't bother pursuing her, but it was obvious she was interested. Nothing happened but we exchanged numbers. Since then, we talked like twice or three times, and she had mentioned how it's difficult to talk to me when she has a boyfriend since she was having troubles with him and their relationship (bad anger, he has, and possibly cheating) and I was a distraction. Which is completely understandable, and nice too, knowing she's loyal. She had left me a few messages last week after about a month of not talking to each other. I never got around to calling her back last week, since, I dunno, what's the point? I don't need an attractive amazing girl who I really like to be JUST a friend, but I finally called her back today. Turns out she broke up with the guy and would like to go out sometime. What the hell do you know? Patience IS a virtue. This has NEVER happened before, liking a chick with a dude, and the chick breaks up with the dude months later and remembers me. So...that's kinda cool. I guess. Yes? Yes. Yay!
ladyangel Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 I'm wishing you the best. So...I was flipping through the channels tonight and noticed that Dr. Vegas was coming on. I thought of you. So I watched almost the whole show, concentrating on bellmen. I only saw two...a tall blonde guy and a black guy. Nope, no Kevin tonight.
Author UCFKevin Posted October 30, 2004 Author Posted October 30, 2004 I won't be on for a while. I didn't go on there for two months.
iceisles Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 Thats great news, congrats! It's funny how things work out sometimes. I'm interested in someone right now who is clearly out of my league (from a looks perspective), and I've gotten to the point where I'm going to ask her out. You just have to keep believing, and I truly think that positive things do happen when you have a positive attitude.
bluechocolate Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 I never got around to calling her back last week, since, I dunno, what's the point? I don't need an attractive amazing girl who I really like to be JUST a friend, exactly, what's the point? Who wants to hurry for the bad sh*t? When in the end good things come to those who wait. chick breaks up with the dude months later and remembers me. So...that's kinda cool. way cool
2KindKay Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 Glad to hear nice guys don't always finish last! Good luck!
sami Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 I'm concerned you might have indirectly played a role in the breakup. If that is true, get ready someone will do the same to you one day.
Adunaphel Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 Yay!! This is great news...thanks for sharing the story, and good luck with her!
Author UCFKevin Posted October 30, 2004 Author Posted October 30, 2004 Sami, trust me, I know. That's why I'm a little hesistant. I always worried with my ex because she broke up with the dude for me.
bluetuesday Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 kev, you're a babe magnet, get used to it. this sounds like great news to me. and even if she did break up with him to give herself the chance of being with you, what's wrong with that? nothing to say she'd do the same thing to you. her ex was an angry guy who possibly cheated on her. his loss, your gain. the sun's shining! go make hay.
Author UCFKevin Posted October 30, 2004 Author Posted October 30, 2004 That's true. He did sound like King Douche...
Wolvesbaned Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin Sami, trust me, I know. That's why I'm a little hesistant. I always worried with my ex because she broke up with the dude for me. Kevin, just go & have some fun! Nevermind all of that-- she's single, you're single... why the heck not?!!
Author UCFKevin Posted November 1, 2004 Author Posted November 1, 2004 Well yeah but my hopes won't be too high.
SoleMate Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 I'm concerned you might have indirectly played a role in the breakup. If that is true, get ready someone will do the same to you one day. WHHAAAAATTTT??? No way! Kevin was the ultimate gentleman! Just being a friend, with no ulterior motive. This breakup was 100% the girl's idea. Kevin has NOTHING to reproach himself with. And BTW, although marriage may be a sanctified relationship, boyfriendhood is NOT! No sense acting as if you're married until you really are. I trust Kevin to use his intelligence and relationship skills to see if trouble is ever brewing between him and his SO, and to take corrective action BEFORE she is at the end of her rope and darting her eyes around the room for a replacement, any replacement.
Wolvesbaned Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin Well yeah but my hopes won't be too high. I don't get it. Elaborate, please!
avsguy01 Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Congrats Kevin. We are all happy for you. Just continue being your cool self, and dont get completely wrapped up into this girl just yet. Take things slow and let them build, so you can feel her out more. Alot of girls tend to always go out and get a guy as a rebound after a breakup. Im not saying shes in it just for this but you cant allow yourself to open up right away to her without knowing for sure what her motives are. Good luck man! Protect your heart! Have a great time! Again Congrats.
Author UCFKevin Posted November 2, 2004 Author Posted November 2, 2004 Yeah, the rebound, I'm aware. My hopes aren't too high because A) I'm not like dying for a relationship, whatever happens, happens and B) SHe's recently single, I'm always wary of recently single women because of walls that tend to be up around, or the rebound issue.
DJ_Dork Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 I think UCFkevin knows the game. She's basically hunting around and looking for the next person "TO DO" list. and you happen to be on her TO DO list. You could be rebound or you could be a "nice guy" she can talk to while she is alone.
Frylock Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 Sounds good and all, but remember to stand your ground as a man. Don't let her use you as a backup, or revenge boyfriend because of something her ex did. If she starts to **** with you, walk away. Keep an eye out for fishy business... and whatever you do, don't grovel at her feet... she came to you, not the other way around, and don't forget that. You need to be bold and strong, and don't let her control you. She should feel lucky you weren't already taken.
michaeljones Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 My advice: Guard your heart my friend, guard it like the crown jewels of england. and have fun. I hope it all goes well for u coz nice guys always get jerked around in relationships and its not right. Good luck!
HokeyReligions Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 Yay for you! Hey, you are just interested in dating and getting to know each other and having some fun. Don't look so far ahead. If it happens that you two fall in love then great. But if you don't and simply have a good time dating that's great too! Have fun!
tiki Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 Yeah look at it this way kev, she's got to be better than your blind date.
surfergirl Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 I posted this same response under "blind date" thread...like a dumb a$$ - lol Anyway I'll say it again...she's not going to break his heart 'cause if she does she will have to face the wrath of ME and She's Come Undone. lol jkjkjkjkjkjk Kevo we've "got your back" - I think? jk You know I love ya babe. And you also know I'm being a little s***t today too. I've got to stir it up a little - kinda dull in here today.
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