someguy84 Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 I am a 29 year old guy who is in need of some advice. I just started 2 women who I met via eharmony, and I could use some advice on how to proceed. They are both vibrant, intelligent, sexy and I get along well with both. I have dated Woman 1 three times so far. I get the impression I was approached on a friends basis the first 2 dates. I had a lot of fun both times and we headed to date 3. She was more flirty, open and her words and body language tell me she is interested in a relationship. We went this past Saturday for indoor rock climbing, dinner and a movie. Other than her very nice posterior ramming me in the face when we went rock climbing (I was belaying her and she basically landed on me, then we laughed hysterically for a little while), all we have done is hugged. I have dated Woman 2 once so far. We just clicked from the get go and I thought it was the best first date I have ever had. We hugged and I kissed her on the cheek at the end of the night. I am seeing Woman 2 tomorrow night and Woman 1 on Saturday night, both to nice restaurants. If I reach the point where things are headed to the bedroom with one, I will then stop dating anyone else. I have honestly never dated more than 1 person past the first date, so I am not sure what to do. Do I just let things progress naturally until the physical relationship heats up with one?
Star Gazer Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 I have dated Woman 1 three times so far. I get the impression I was approached on a friends basis the first 2 dates. I just want to point out something to you: You "met" on eHarmony. As such, it's highly unlikely that she was approaching you as friends. Rather, she likely had a long term relationship in mind. 1
pyramid Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 I am a few steps ahead of you in a similar situation. I had first dates with them both the same weekend. Never thought I would click with both of them. Things are heating up w/ both now (3 dates and 5 dates - though 4/5 were in the span of a week)... I do like one slightly more but have gone back and forth several times over the last few weeks. Trying to go with the flow (slowly) for now.
D-Lish Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 I have honestly never dated more than 1 person past the first date, so I am not sure what to do. Do I just let things progress naturally until the physical relationship heats up with one? Yeah, until things heat up sexually- date and figure out who you want to be with more- explore your possibilities. Multi-dating is like interviewing people. You would be a dawg if you were sleeping with both women. You're not being a dawg, so don't stress.
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