Email from Ex

[very_confused_011]

Hi,

 

My ex girlfriend broke up with me a month ago, we were in LC for a while and then I went into NC.

 

Today she emailed me thanking me for giving her some space, and that when we were speaking she couldn't realise the situation. She basically asked how I am and that she hopes I am ok about everything and wishing me well for the future. She says that she misses me and has been thinking about me a lot.

 

Is it best to ignore this email and maintain NC?

 

Thanks

[Audrey12]

Its really best to do what you WANT to do. If you want to be with her, you have an in again now, If you dont want to be with her I wouldnt reply if I were you.

Like shes taken time to figure out how she feels, so should you.

Good Luck.

[very_confused_011]

I miss her very much indeed, and I don't really want to date other girls at the moment.

 

However, I am also a bit concerned that she left me, and if she could do it again because it was hell when it first happened. I am not sure if this is her trying to reach out to me, or showing me she cares just as a person. I am not sure I could take rejection from her again. It's only been a month, but I see the errors I made in the relationship, of course they are not fixed inside me, but I am aware of them. It is difficult, I have thought about her everyday this last month.

[flitzanu]

Hi,

 

My ex girlfriend broke up with me a month ago, we were in LC for a while and then I went into NC.

 

Today she emailed me thanking me for giving her some space, and that when we were speaking she couldn't realise the situation. She basically asked how I am and that she hopes I am ok about everything and wishing me well for the future. She says that she misses me and has been thinking about me a lot.

 

Is it best to ignore this email and maintain NC?

 

Thanks

 

yes you should ignore this email and maintain NC. she's only wanting to alleviate her own guilt for what she did. none of what she said has any bearing on wanting to get back together with you.