Woggle Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 No one with half a brain would think it's okay to date someone (multiple times a week) for 2 mos and still be ****ing a FWB. I don't know how anyone can defend this chick. She is shady as hell. True but some people can only see gender and they pick a side accordingly.
BeholdtheMan Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 I don't even think the issue is how long she's known the FWB as opposed to how long she's known the OP. The issue is she pretended that she wanted an emotional connection before sex...and yet she had a pure fu** buddy? She was feeding OP a line of BS. I don't tolerate dishonesty or hypocrisy that early in a relationship. I'd peace out.
kaylan Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 Everyone who's posted about her having done nothing wrong is only focusing on the non-exclusivity part. In my opinion, she DID do something wrong when she portrayed herself as being "not like that" and wanting to wait for an emotional connection before sex. Although she didn't exactly lie, I'd expect someone who gave me that line to also declare that they're having casual sex with someone on the side, because it's pretty contradictory. Probably the reason she didn't is because she knew it would sound like BS - "I want to wait for sex with you because I like you and want to get to know you - but I'm gonna make sure I get my fix elsewhere in the meantime". This. Id have a hard time not viewing a girl who did this to me as a skank. Id drop her immediately. Plus itd show me a lot about how she feels about me physically if shes able to make me wait 2 months while banging someone on the side. No thanks. Im noones cuckold.Uh yeah if this is true, it's totally trashy. I would be PISSED if I found out my bf was banging some other girl while dating me and telling me "I am not that kinda guy". Just no. You don't date someone for TWO MONTHS while still screwing someone else. If it happened around like dates 1-3, fine I guess, but beyond that? Grody. And rude. And if you are dating ME and still wanna fk someone ELSE then you just aren't that into me. I can't even IMAGINE dating a guy for 2 months straight and still fking someone else. Not cool. This as well. Especially the bold.
Woggle Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 Honestly if you continue with her you might as well tattoo sucker on your forehead.
Simon Phoenix Posted July 31, 2013 Posted July 31, 2013 It's not his fault that people in these kinds of threads can never see past their own gender bias to actually be fair and look at the facts. They automatically pick sides based on gender. Don't blame the OP for that fact. I'm way behind but this is the most infuriating thing about this board. The people who go "men are evil herpderp" or "women are evil herpderp" exclusively add nothing to the discussion. 2
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