DESI Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 I am still having a hard time trying to get over my ex. I often feel like I will never find another relationship that seemed so perfect. I feel like we got along so well and our personalities really fit well together. Everything in our relationship happened so fast and everything felt so right. It felt like a complete dream come true. I was so in love with him. We are both young, but we both had goals that we were working on career wise. We both also support ourselves so we both work full time and go to school full time. We also had the same childhood, seems like his childhood story was almost identical to mine. We both also went to the same high school, knew a lot of the same people. We always seemed to agree on almost everything to politics to abortion issues, to religion, to raising children, to where we wanted to live. I know it sounds stupid but we also had the same favorite movie, the same favorite songs, and the same favorite car. It was at times kind of scary on how much we were alike. I could say one word and he would always finish my sentences, on top of that he just did things for me that no other guy has ever done. He would always open up my door, even after 2 years, he would come up to my work and surprise me with flowers all the time, he would pick me up and we would go out on dates even after 1 and a half years. He would always remember anniversaries. Also my parents went over to his moms house for holidays and all that other fun stuff. With all of this said, I often feel like I am never again going to find such a connection with anyone else ever again. I know people might think it sounds stupid, but I have dated a lot of guys and I have never felt this connection with anyone. We have been broken up for 5 months now, and he still has not called me at all. I often wonder how he can move on so fast, and get hurt that he doesn't realize how good we were for eachother. I was just wondering if anyone has ever felt the same way. I thought I found the one for me that was perfect in everyway and it is just all destroyed now. I just feel like he was the one, and its over now, and there is nothing I can do about it. I just have this fear that I will never again feel like I have so much of a connection with anyone. Any advice or stories of your own experiences with this would be great. Thanks
Just Visiting Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 Desi, I have thought and felt the exact things you are describing. It is hard. No doubt. My recent ex and I had sooo many things in common, and we got along great. But circumstances came along and we are no longer together. So knowing we were compatible makes it difficult to totally let go. However, he made the decision to leave and I am not about to run after someone. It has been about 8 months since we had any sort of contact. I find it gets easier as time goes by. Someday, you will realize the same. Take care.
bluechocolate Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 from JustVisiting It has been about 8 months since we had any sort of contact. I find it gets easier as time goes by. Someday, you will realize the same. Take care. Desi, it will get easier in time & sure, he's the one right NOW but he's not the only one. You will find love again one day. We all do. Cheers
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