EvansR Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 So I've been trying to get over this girl who was using me as a doormat, and it's getting easier as the days go by - especially now I'm trying to pursue this new girl. The 'new girl' is a few hours drive away (I have no issues with LDR, and she told me her last relationship was LDR and that didn't bother her). We used to be pretty close friends and talk a lot, then her crazy boyfriend made her cut off communication with her male friends. I got back in touch with her the other day when she was in town and, long-story-short, we ended up making out. She says she likes me, but when I message her, she only answers with short answers like "cool" and "ok, lol" even when she starts the conversations! I asked her about it, and she said it's because I'm annoying when I message her asking about her day and she doesn't want to send me messages telling her everything that happened to her in a normal day. It's like everything I say annoys her, but I'm only saying the things I'm saying because I still feel like I have to walk on eggshells like I did with the last girl who, I admit, I'm still in love with (but it can't happen because, as I said, I was just her doormat) How do I stop striking out??
BradJacobs Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 My responses to texts are always short. It leaves little room for interpretation and I get annoyed with people who blow up my phone. I also prefer phone calls to texts. Your communication styles are different. It doesn't mean she's not into you.
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