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ok hello guys, im glad if u reading this, im just writting all of it here to make myself feel better, hope u guys wont find it long and boring :)

 

ok, im just 17 teenager, and my hobby is gaming, not like any other girls i gaming alot, since my study is so stressful. i play a RPG ( role playing game) and i was famous there, for being a tough leader and never back down, and i met him, he live in neighborhood country, 1 hour gap

 

At first, he was on my team, and he was so slow-handed, i got mad and scold him, and i didnt even bother, just long time later he talk about old things did he said about it ( he said he never met a girl who scold him at 1st met before). And we never care of each other, i just focus playing.

 

then one day, he got dumped by his real life gf, and he was devastated. and i was online alone with him in guild, i said hello to him then he throw out all of his frustration , and i think this dude need a shoulder, and so i sit back and comfort him ( well tbh i give face only, i just dont like hear ppl complain but i dont want to be rude)

 

i was being his friend for like less than one month, we started adding each other in facebook, just becoz i want him to inform me if got game event or so, i didnt mean anything, and we started talking in facebook, and ofc he saw my picts, he said '' u so sexy and pretty'', but i dont mind much but we keep playing together almost everyday, so i can say i interact with him alot

 

then one day he start to say he got feeling for me, and i was like '' LOL ok this is sick, dont waste time on me dude, im far away and im not gonna be your rebound'', and i started to avoiding him, ignoring him, act cold or whatever is it, but he didnt even give up until 3 months later ( wow tbh i admire his persistence), then one day he was beggin me to give him a chance to date me, and i was so tired of all of his emo lines and all of his effort for me ( buy me stuff in game which i never ask him to do, and spend time working on my gears coz he know how much i love gaming) so i give him a chance, i was delusional and weak i think, and i really thought that it not gonna last more than 1 month, but then when i start to spend more time talking with him, i really like his personality, and then i fell for it, we talking whole day for around 1month + and when i realize my feeling is growing so much i freaking out and wanna end it, i told him i wanna end thing 4.5 times already but he always beg for me dont leave him etc, and he cried on fone alot, then i cant bare it, so i never be able to leave, then his school open, he quit school 2 years ago, he just go back in, and that when thing become to go wrong

 

he cant play or spend much time with me anymore, its true, and i coped with it, im currently on summer vacation, im free but hes so busy, he having hard time getting used to school and his house having renovation, and we text by facebook giving short msgs, he informed me what hes doing and etc, even i feel so lonely, i nvr really appear clingy to him, i know its bad to be clingy and i completely think that love mean freedom. he fall asleep alot at night when he done his job and finally got some time to talk with me, but i really try to cope with it

 

i tried to play games more, so i will get him off my mind, so i wont be clingy, and my guild leader, who is alot older than me( 10 years + ) are very close to me, we have many thing in common, and we both funny, so we talked alot, and before i even think i got a crush on him, but as time i know it just some interes, its not a crush, and unfortunately i shared it with my ex saying i think i like my guild leader etc ( when we were still friends ofc), and that when we start dating, my ex always been insecure about him, but as i said im a cheater, i got many male friends, but ik where is my line, but my ex was so insecure and he ask me block my guild leader in facebook and dont even talk to him even it just '' ? .?'', and i find it completely insane, he said he not online much so he want make sure im not flirting !!???!!!!

 

but unfortunately he caught me talking many times. ( its my friend anyway, and we just talking about game !!!!) and he always nag on me for hours like 20 times of that since we dated, he said im a liar didnt keep my promise( he make me promise not to talk with that guy) and cheat on him?! ( hello!! im just talking lol)

well but he always forgive me, until that last time when we got big argument about that topic again, i was in bad mood so i did say some very meany things to him ( now im regret really) but then we made up somehow, coz i step back, until 3 days later, he suddenly disapear for whole day, i was worried to sick ( coz he got heart diseases) and i foned him alot but no pick up, i even msg his's sister facebook and stay up all night waitting for him then at 4am in the morning ( 1 HOUR SLEEP NIGHT !!!!!) he open his inbox and check the msg, he said he got high fever coz he got soaked in rain 2days ago so he slept all days long and forgot his fone, he apologized he let me worried and offer the break up coz he said he cant no longer being able to make me happy due to his full schedule and renovation, he said even though he love me so much but he cant forget how many times i lie to him, and he told me to take care and promise he will come to meet me up one day.

i was shocked + 1 night didnt sleep + worried really did torn me down, so i wasnt able to hold my emotion, and i burst, i cried and kinda beg him to think it over, if he still love me then we can still do it , and this isnt the first time we argue also, ( 1st time i ever beg, and i cant believe that i did) then after that he said he need time.

 

no NC for 2 weeks + already, i didnt spam or call or text him or anything. and i dont know what to do anymore

 

last nite i was cleaning up my books , and a piece of paper drop out, i wrote his fb password on it, he give me it long time ago, so i can check on him whenever i want , and he want me to feel secure, i didnt mind it tbh, coz i cant understand his language anyway, and he nag me many time for losing it. my curiiousity beat me, i tried open it, i thought he already channged password, but sadly, he didnt ! and i saw his inbox, he been talking with a bunch of girls !! Omg i was shocked like ever, and i notice he start using :p : P :p alot, before he hate it, he nag me before when i using :p to talk with people, he said im not thinking of him when use that :p with other dudes in his face, and he was like trying to show me that he moving on or something, i signed out ASAP, i dont know what the hell is happening really coz ik he not a careless type, he cant forget the fact ik his password, he been naggin for ages coz i forgot it, and why he setting up things like flirting with other girls, i dont really know what to think, he moved on or he making me jelous coz he know i might login in his fb?

Guys, ty for reading :), i would happy to see u guys advices.

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i forgot some detail
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Please keep your posts shorter and stop using abbreviations for anything. You're not texting a friend, you're writing on a public forum.

 

You're post was quite hard to read and understand, partially also due to English not being your own language I guess.

 

Anyway, all those tongue-out smilies in his FB messages to girls, were they typed while he was professing his crush on you or afterwards? If it's the latter, it's none of your business.

 

My suggestion: stop thinking about this guy. You said you're a cheater, so next time you are looking for a boyfriend, try to find someone who's a free spirit just like you and you should be fine.

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Please keep your posts shorter and stop using abbreviations for anything. You're not texting a friend, you're writing on a public forum.

 

You're post was quite hard to read and understand, partially also due to English not being your own language I guess.

 

Anyway, all those tongue-out smilies in his FB messages to girls, were they typed while he was professing his crush on you or afterwards? If it's the latter, it's none of your business.

 

My suggestion: stop thinking about this guy. You said you're a cheater, so next time you are looking for a boyfriend, try to find someone who's a free spirit just like you and you should be fine.

 

 

im sorry for my abbreaviation, this is my first time posting.

and im not a cheater. im just talking with my friends, they are male, so he hate it.

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The post is too long and I don't get the actual question that you want to ask.

 

But from what I understand,... I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. He moved on. You should forget about him and move on too. He sounds like a very jealous type of guy so save yourself the headache.

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What game is this? ;D

 

Sounds like the typical WoW drama, lol.

 

But yeah, it's all good, if you continue with the MMORPG you will probably go through about 10 more of these online relationships. It happens.

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but as i said im a cheater, i got many male friends

 

im not a cheater

 

Ehm, you said it. Not me. So be careful with what you type.

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oh, im sorry, i was typing so many that i didnt aware i made such a mistake, it suppose to be '' im not a cheater''. Im sorry for my mistake :) , its my first time posting, i will notice if i post anything again

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ok hello guys, im glad if u reading this, im just writting all of it here to make myself feel better, hope u guys wont find it long and boring :)

 

ok, im just 17 teenager, and my hobby is gaming, not like any other girls i gaming alot, since my study is so stressful. i play a RPG ( role playing game) and i was famous there, for being a tough leader and never back down, and i met him, he live in neighborhood country, 1 hour gap

 

At first, he was on my team, and he was so slow-handed, i got mad and scold him, and i didnt even bother, just long time later he talk about old things did he said about it ( he said he never met a girl who scold him at 1st met before). And we never care of each other, i just focus playing.

 

then one day, he got dumped by his real life gf, and he was devastated. and i was online alone with him in guild, i said hello to him then he throw out all of his frustration , and i think this dude need a shoulder, and so i sit back and comfort him ( well tbh i give face only, i just dont like hear ppl complain but i dont want to be rude)

 

i was being his friend for like less than one month, we started adding each other in facebook, just becoz i want him to inform me if got game event or so, i didnt mean anything, and we started talking in facebook, and ofc he saw my picts, he said '' u so sexy and pretty'', but i dont mind much but we keep playing together almost everyday, so i can say i interact with him alot

 

then one day he start to say he got feeling for me, and i was like '' LOL ok this is sick, dont waste time on me dude, im far away and im not gonna be your rebound'', and i started to avoiding him, ignoring him, act cold or whatever is it, but he didnt even give up until 3 months later ( wow tbh i admire his persistence), then one day he was beggin me to give him a chance to date me, and i was so tired of all of his emo lines and all of his effort for me ( buy me stuff in game which i never ask him to do, and spend time working on my gears coz he know how much i love gaming) so i give him a chance, i was delusional and weak i think, and i really thought that it not gonna last more than 1 month, but then when i start to spend more time talking with him, i really like his personality, and then i fell for it, we talking whole day for around 1month + and when i realize my feeling is growing so much i freaking out and wanna end it, i told him i wanna end thing 4.5 times already but he always beg for me dont leave him etc, and he cried on fone alot, then i cant bare it, so i never be able to leave, then his school open, he quit school 2 years ago, he just go back in, and that when thing become to go wrong

 

he cant play or spend much time with me anymore, its true, and i coped with it, im currently on summer vacation, im free but hes so busy, he having hard time getting used to school and his house having renovation, and we text by facebook giving short msgs, he informed me what hes doing and etc, even i feel so lonely, i nvr really appear clingy to him, i know its bad to be clingy and i completely think that love mean freedom. he fall asleep alot at night when he done his job and finally got some time to talk with me, but i really try to cope with it

 

i tried to play games more, so i will get him off my mind, so i wont be clingy, and my guild leader, who is alot older than me( 10 years + ) are very close to me, we have many thing in common, and we both funny, so we talked alot, and before i even think i got a crush on him, but as time i know it just some interes, its not a crush, and unfortunately i shared it with my ex saying i think i like my guild leader etc ( when we were still friends ofc), and that when we start dating, my ex always been insecure about him, but as i said im a cheater, i got many male friends, but ik where is my line, but my ex was so insecure and he ask me block my guild leader in facebook and dont even talk to him even it just '' ? .?'', and i find it completely insane, he said he not online much so he want make sure im not flirting !!???!!!!

 

but unfortunately he caught me talking many times. ( its my friend anyway, and we just talking about game !!!!) and he always nag on me for hours like 20 times of that since we dated, he said im a liar didnt keep my promise( he make me promise not to talk with that guy) and cheat on him?! ( hello!! im just talking lol)

well but he always forgive me, until that last time when we got big argument about that topic again, i was in bad mood so i did say some very meany things to him ( now im regret really) but then we made up somehow, coz i step back, until 3 days later, he suddenly disapear for whole day, i was worried to sick ( coz he got heart diseases) and i foned him alot but no pick up, i even msg his's sister facebook and stay up all night waitting for him then at 4am in the morning ( 1 HOUR SLEEP NIGHT !!!!!) he open his inbox and check the msg, he said he got high fever coz he got soaked in rain 2days ago so he slept all days long and forgot his fone, he apologized he let me worried and offer the break up coz he said he cant no longer being able to make me happy due to his full schedule and renovation, he said even though he love me so much but he cant forget how many times i lie to him, and he told me to take care and promise he will come to meet me up one day.

i was shocked + 1 night didnt sleep + worried really did torn me down, so i wasnt able to hold my emotion, and i burst, i cried and kinda beg him to think it over, if he still love me then we can still do it , and this isnt the first time we argue also, ( 1st time i ever beg, and i cant believe that i did) then after that he said he need time.

 

no NC for 2 weeks + already, i didnt spam or call or text him or anything. and i dont know what to do anymore

 

last nite i was cleaning up my books , and a piece of paper drop out, i wrote his fb password on it, he give me it long time ago, so i can check on him whenever i want , and he want me to feel secure, i didnt mind it tbh, coz i cant understand his language anyway, and he nag me many time for losing it. my curiiousity beat me, i tried open it, i thought he already channged password, but sadly, he didnt ! and i saw his inbox, he been talking with a bunch of girls !! Omg i was shocked like ever, and i notice he start using :p : P :p alot, before he hate it, he nag me before when i using :p to talk with people, he said im not thinking of him when use that :p with other dudes in his face, and he was like trying to show me that he moving on or something, i signed out ASAP, i dont know what the hell is happening really coz ik he not a careless type, he cant forget the fact ik his password, he been naggin for ages coz i forgot it, and why he setting up things like flirting with other girls, i dont really know what to think, he moved on or he making me jelous coz he know i might login in his fb?

Guys, ty for reading :), i would happy to see u guys advices.

 

What game is this? ;D

 

Sounds like the typical WoW drama, lol.

 

But yeah, it's all good, if you continue with the MMORPG you will probably go through about 10 more of these online relationships. It happens.

 

hahaha, ik, i been through this kind of gaming dating since like 10 times like u said, but it just for fun, but this time its kinda different in a weird way:)

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