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True of false? Men and women are equally "shallow" when selecting mates

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PJKino Established Member

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That is 100% true. And thats what irritates me with women. Is how they try to hide all of that stuff. And present themselves as perfect little angels....all the while pointing the finger at men, labeling them as pigs.

 

I know a very, very attractive guy, that is fit and has that typical athletic jock look and swagger. years ago...when OLD just started getting popular...he made a profile...and no exaggeration...probably ****ed at least 30 different women a year, for 3 years. He litterally had women throwing themselves at his crotch....and then friends of theres started contacting him as well.

 

Women will put on that act for 90% of them men out there.....telling them how they just want a nice guy, someone that they are attracted to, and someone they can grow old with.....but at that same time....those same women are being pounded regularly, by 10% of the men out there.

 

There is a very high percentage of women, sharing, and playing musical chairs with the top 10-20% of the males out there.

 

Yep..my good looking friend is juggles 3 or 4 women at a time..some of them dont care and are just riding it out literally and figureatively hoping hes the one they pick

 

Then after this theyll say how theyres no good men left or all men are pigs yet purposely slept with a guy more attractive then themselves in hopes they could trap him into a relationship with their vagina..

 

Then once they realize theyre biologial clocks ticking theyll settle for the average guy they arent hat attracted to just to have their dream of a family fulfilled..

Weezy1973 Established Member

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I recently visited Portland for a weekend and went to a beer festival. Mostly because I lurk on LS so much, I thought I'd check out the couples to see if there was some kind of discrepancy between who was more attractive. Guess what? The VAST majority of couples were extremely similar in terms of attractiveness. There was one what I would call major exception (out of literally 100s of couples) where the woman was significantly more attractive than her husband. But trust me, that was an outlier. Pretty much without fail, these couple were very much on the same "level". This leads me to believe that men and women are probably pretty equal when it comes to their attraction towards superficial traits.

PJKino Established Member

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I recently visited Portland for a weekend and went to a beer festival. Mostly because I lurk on LS so much, I thought I'd check out the couples to see if there was some kind of discrepancy between who was more attractive. Guess what? The VAST majority of couples were extremely similar in terms of attractiveness. There was one what I would call major exception (out of literally 100s of couples) where the woman was significantly more attractive than her husband. But trust me, that was an outlier. Pretty much without fail, these couple were very much on the same "level". This leads me to believe that men and women are probably pretty equal when it comes to their attraction towards superficial traits.

 

I agree most couples are evenly matched this idea that its like a tv sitcom and all these fat or average guys are with attractive women isnt true..

 

Both genders are as shallow as they can be

PJKino Established Member

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Those women don't have much self respect...I can say me nor my female social circle would ever do that...

 

Lets be real PJKino, most men cannot appreciate a good woman for a long period of time. They can lazy and complacent. I would stop portraying women as all evil...for sure if you dated me or one of my self respecting female friends ( we are all "good women" by terms sake ) odds are youd screw us over eventually...nice girls finish last (unless they are SUPER hot as well)

 

Oh please women aren any better.. sorry most people ive known who cheated are women..

 

Obviously men do to but women are these innocent creatures theyre pretyt f'ed up as well these days

PJKino Established Member

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The fact that I think your goodlooking friend (SteveC80?) is also your imaginary friend aside - the girls are COMPETING for the guys they are interested in. Not "sharing."

 

 

 

 

 

Competing huh? for what? the blowjob olympics? :laugh:

 

You dont compete for a player you share him because hes playing you[not you specifically]

PJKino Established Member

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Good! Then you should be happy and relieved that you don't have anything to do with us at all. Enjoy it.

 

Ive resigned myself to that fact already so now im just sitting on the sidlines amused by it all counting my lucky blessings lol

Woggle Established Member

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That is why it is a huge plus if a woman is not impressed by players. My wife has known men over the years who women damn near get into physical fights over and she just doesn't get it.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Competing huh? for what? the blowjob olympics? :laugh:

 

You dont compete for a player you share him because hes playing you[not you specifically]

You think you know :p.

 

The more you think you know, the more you know jack sh*t :laugh:. You obviously happen to be unlucky enough to dwell in a very shallow social circle, complete with superficial women and one good looking guy named Steve who they all want to f*ck. And you, like a pussy, are willing to sit in this social network and cry about being shy and how girls are shallow and only want guys like Steve instead of actually expanding your social life to include people who fit a different dynamic - then you come here and project your very small social circle onto the rest of the world like it's the gospel.

 

Some of you guys really need to get out more :laugh:.

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PJKino Established Member

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You think you know :p.

 

The more you think you know, the more you know jack sh*t :laugh:. You obviously happen to be unlucky enough to dwell in a very shallow social circle, complete with superficial women and one good looking guy named Steve who they all want to f*ck. And you, like a pussy, are willing to sit in this social network and cry about being shy and how girls are shallow and only want guys like Steve instead of actually expanding your social life to include people who fit a different dynamic - then you come here and project your very small social circle onto the rest of the world like it's the gospel.

 

Some of you guys really need to get out more :laugh:.

 

Im a Pussy huh? that one women youve been with has really gassed you up:laugh:

 

I realize its not all women but my reality and expriences are what i see

Woggle Established Member

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I have seen the dynamics that PJKino is talking about. Not so much the women all dating one player but I see obvious players who everybody knows are hit and quit types have women just lining up to be used then these women want to turn around and bash all men because they couldn't tame him.

 

I know not all women are like this and many of you would never act like this but stop acting like it doesn't happen on a regular basis.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Im a Pussy huh? that one women youve been with has really gassed you up:laugh:

 

I realize its not all women but my reality and expriences are what i see

 

More than one, but whatever...

 

You are acting like a pussy, whether you actually are or not. You can do something about that reality you've crafted for yourself. Why don't you get some new friends, go find some new women. You been talking about the same women ever since I got to this forum, and the same good looking Steve dude.

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PJKino Established Member

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More than one, but whatever...

 

You are acting like a pussy, whether you actually are or not. You can do something about that reality you've crafted for yourself. Why don't you get some new friends, go find some new women. You been talking about the same women ever since I got to this forum, and the same good looking Steve dude.

 

Im not really good at meeting new people nor do i have many chances..Ive been rejected enough to learn not to touch the stove anymore which is women

ThaWholigan Established Member

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I have seen the dynamics that PJKino is talking about. Not so much the women all dating one player but I see obvious players who everybody knows are hit and quit types have women just lining up to be used then these women want to turn around and bash all men because they couldn't tame him.

 

I know not all women are like this and many of you would never act like this but stop acting like it doesn't happen on a regular basis.

 

Yeah so do I, I just don't project that onto the entire gender of women, or most either. Stop acting like it's the majority, and using it as an excuse to fuel your bias.

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miss_jaclynrae Established Member

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I have seen the dynamics that PJKino is talking about. Not so much the women all dating one player but I see obvious players who everybody knows are hit and quit types have women just lining up to be used then these women want to turn around and bash all men because they couldn't tame him.

 

I know not all women are like this and many of you would never act like this but stop acting like it doesn't happen on a regular basis.

 

I have a huge inkling that this statement is a lot of assuming and not so much fact.

 

 

I have slept with men who were obvious hit it and quit it... guess what? I could care less. Players are great at getting laid, I don't know many women who actually seek out to tame a player. I have honestly never met one.

 

 

Please tell me how you came up with this consensus.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Im not really good at meeting new people nor do i have many chances..Ive been rejected enough to learn not to touch the stove anymore which is women

Well then, as I've said to you before, you can't claim women are more shallow, because you haven't even exposed yourself to a new dynamic at all. How do you expect to find anything else?

 

You shouldn't be complaining.

Woggle Established Member

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Yeah so do I, I just don't project that onto the entire gender of women, or most either. Stop acting like it's the majority, and using it as an excuse to fuel your bias.

 

I know I know but when I hear how men are all pigs who use women and wish they could players why not hold the mirror in the other direction? Generalizing men in that way is just as wrong as men who generalize women.

Woggle Established Member

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I have a huge inkling that this statement is a lot of assuming and not so much fact.

 

 

I have slept with men who were obvious hit it and quit it... guess what? I could care less. Players are great at getting laid, I don't know many women who actually seek out to tame a player. I have honestly never met one.

 

 

Please tell me how you came up with this consensus.

 

Because almost every woman I knows who has that all men are dogs mentality wasted a ton of emotion and time on a man who everybody can tell was about nothing and now wants to take it out on all men.

miss_jaclynrae Established Member

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I know I know but when I hear how men are all pigs who use women and wish they could players why not hold the mirror in the other direction? Generalizing men in that way is just as wrong as men who generalize women.

 

 

 

Two wrongs make a right huh?

Saying such things only makes me (personally of course) throw you in the group who have no idea what they are talking about and are just bitter people in general.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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I know I know but when I hear how men are all pigs who use women and wish they could players why not hold the mirror in the other direction? Generalizing men in that way is just as wrong as men who generalize women.

Still banging that drum Woggle? :laugh:

 

Yeah, I know it's BS, and I've said that before more than once. I don't need to bang on about it nor do I need to be upset about women and make excuses about it.

miss_jaclynrae Established Member

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Because almost every woman I knows who has that all men are dogs mentality wasted a ton of emotion and time on a man who everybody can tell was about nothing and now wants to take it out on all men.

 

 

Please tell me all these women you know... :rolleyes:

I can name a few, but they are all from LS, and I don't take anything they have to say seriously. It is pitiful.

Woggle Established Member

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Still banging that drum Woggle? :laugh:

 

Yeah, I know it's BS, and I've said that before more than once. I don't need to bang on about it nor do I need to be upset about women and make excuses about it.

 

Why do I get the feeling will never be happy unless I say that all men are horrible and all women are great? Is that what guys need to say to not be considered misogynists?

PJKino Established Member

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Good for everybody. Now that you don't touch the stove, how about giving up talking about this stove. Maybe there are some topics you are knowledgeable about which you might like to discuss, instead.

 

How bout you just ignore my posts? unless you beleive this site was intended sorely for your entertainment purposes and what you enjoy

ThaWholigan Established Member

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How bout you just ignore my posts? unless you beleive this site was intended sorely for your entertainment purposes and what you enjoy

Just touch the f*cking stove :laugh:. The fire isn't even on yet....

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Woggle Established Member

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Please tell me all these women you know... :rolleyes:

I can name a few, but they are all from LS, and I don't take anything they have to say seriously. It is pitiful.

 

Talk to most man haters you know and that is pretty much their story most of the time. I used to have a coworker who had her heart broken by a player back i high school and now cheats on her husband who she admits is a kind and faithful man in order to get revenge. She says after her high school boyfriend cheated on her she knows to never treat a man well again. She is in her thirties and still dwells on it.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Why do I get the feeling will never be happy unless I say that all men are horrible and all women are great? Is that what guys need to say to not be considered misogynists?

No.

 

You need to stop letting it piss you off, it's hot air and nothing more. They don't even hate men most of the time, they're just jaded, pissed off women. It doesn't anger me or upset me.

 

I know I'm not a misogynist, I can talk about these things very easily, without painting all or most women as one thing or another and that's that. Learn to do that and stop being so led.

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