Teller1921 Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 My ex-gf broke up with me three weeks ago(we lived together). We were engaged, and her reasons were hardly logical. Just the whole ""I'm not ready for the commitment" thing. I'm shocked because it really is out of nowhere but I'm respectful and we do not contact each other for about a week. I just ask her how's she doing and I didn't expect her to reply but she does with a "doing fine". So another two weeks pass by and I text her again, only this time I send her a funny picture and her reply is very friendly. She's laughing and asking me where I found the picture and asking me to explain it etc... Again I didn't expect her to reply at all. The conversation is strangely familiar, too friendly I thought, but I don't think too much about it. But she sends me a text telling me that I left some things over at her apartment. I say "okay leave them in a bag and place them outside I'll drop by and pick them up". All this is assuming that since she broke up with me, she doesn't want to see me. But she replies "I feel weird doing that, cant I just give them to you? Come after 10". I say okay. (the day after we broke up though, she was more than willing to leave my stuff outside in a bag). I don't really know what to expect. I go in with the expectation that I'm going to grab my stuff and leave. Instead, she invites me inside the apartment. And she's all smiley and laughing at my jokes, and its again, too familiar, like we were flirting with one another. She brings up me going to bars, and how shes glad I'm being more social. The only thing is , I've only been to one bar, and I asked her who saw me? And her reply was suspicious, like she wasn't entirely sure, she says " just some people". I know though, that her friends don't really know who or what I look like. It felt like she was fishing for information, because she goes on to talk about all the pretty girls that are available. And, would my Ex ever really want to know that I'm picking up chicks at bars , just two weeks after the break up? I don't think so. The dialogue felt like she was searching for my availability, or was trying to lead the conversation somewhere, I dunno. I head towards the door and she says "You're leaving already?". But it was the tone of her voice that made me shut the door and turn around and say , "yeah....why?". She doesn't really say anything, she says " i was joking". But where is the joke in that? I don't get it. And so I leave the house. It seemed like my ex went out of her way to give me my stuff. She could have left it outside, but instead she tells me to come over, and to come inside. Shes all flirty, and she brings up other girls, talks about me going to bars, and I'm not sure why anyone, who you were intimately and romantically involved, would want to know that. And then when I leave she sort of stumbles , asking me if "I'm leaving already?". I texted her two days later. I asked her if she had anything to say, but now shes ignoring me. Shes the type though, that would say "No, you're thinking too much. Its OVER." But ignoring me sort of confirms what I thought. It seems like shes unwilling to shut the door. What gives?
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