memyselfi Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 What do i need to do with the man I love who just stopped appreciating me, he said he appreciates me. He wasnt happy at all, being lonely, alone and depressed with his job that pressures him and his behavior keeps affecting us, he doesnt have social life, plus I think he is not getting enough money for us to start somewhere to have a goal of seeing each other. I Love Him So. Response especially from men would be so appreciated. Thanks.
justwhoiam Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 Is he the same guy who used to show his d--k around online in chat rooms? If so, why are you still wasting your time with him? By the way, did you get a visa yet? Or is he still being evasive about it? Anyway, have you ever met him at all??
zues Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 I have came to the conclusion if you want someone and they dont show enough interest then move on. it should not be difficult and should not cause pain being with someone should make you both happy. if not on to the next one!
LittleTiger Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 What do i need to do with the man I love who just stopped appreciating me, he said he appreciates me. He wasnt happy at all, being lonely, alone and depressed with his job that pressures him and his behavior keeps affecting us, he doesnt have social life, plus I think he is not getting enough money for us to start somewhere to have a goal of seeing each other. You don't need to do anything. If a man doesn't have his act together that's for him to sort - not you. You can offer support while he's getting himself sorted, but that's it.
EvansR Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 What do i need to do with the man I love who just stopped appreciating me, he said he appreciates me. He wasnt happy at all, being lonely, alone and depressed with his job that pressures him and his behavior keeps affecting us, he doesnt have social life, plus I think he is not getting enough money for us to start somewhere to have a goal of seeing each other. I Love Him So. Response especially from men would be so appreciated. Thanks. When I was suffering from depression, my (now ex) girlfriend was just there for me, and that's all I needed. And I got depressed bad, I cut myself off from most other people - I was stressed by the amount of work I had at university. The only thing I needed from her was support, because in honesty, in a LDR there isn't really much else you can do but be supportive. That support is one of the reasons she will always have a special place in my heart. 1
Author memyselfi Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 When I was suffering from depression, my (now ex) girlfriend was just there for me, and that's all I needed. And I got depressed bad, I cut myself off from most other people - I was stressed by the amount of work I had at university. The only thing I needed from her was support, because in honesty, in a LDR there isn't really much else you can do but be supportive. That support is one of the reasons she will always have a special place in my heart. How did she showed you her support, in what way?
EvansR Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 What this girl did for me... Well, before she turned crazy, she was really supportive. She showed this through little things she knew would make me happy. She knew that I was busy and couldn't talk ALL the time, but whenever I did need someone to talk to, she would always be there. She'd tell me all the things she wished we could be doing together at the time, and she'd send the occasional sweet picture of herself to motivate myself. I wasn't getting over depression for anyone but her. I wanted to be the guy she deserved. Then over time I've realised that I've ended up more than the guy she deserves, lol. I hope this helps
amkxoxo Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 When I was suffering from depression, my (now ex) girlfriend was just there for me, and that's all I needed. And I got depressed bad, I cut myself off from most other people - I was stressed by the amount of work I had at university. The only thing I needed from her was support, because in honesty, in a LDR there isn't really much else you can do but be supportive. That support is one of the reasons she will always have a special place in my heart. I really really like this response because my guy sounds so similar to you. I am still having troubles with him you can read my most recent thread in "second chances" because something went down the other night and I would love your opinion. But anyway. I have thought of giving up on him because its the easy way out, but it might not get me where I want to be either. He had told me once that he needed his ex girlfriend and she was there for him, and there for him, and there for him, and one day she needed him and then they started a relationship. I found this weird but enlightening. If you could read my most recent post I would love your opinion. Its I think the second to last page on my thread called "he says it could happen in the future...maybe" and then its the second to last page listed "He called me..."
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