venus1173 Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 Me and my bf have been in a relationship long distance for three months now, we met 3 years ago we lost contact over time, he got into contact with me at the beginning of the year by email and asked did I want to continue our relationship.3 weeks ago for 2 days he came to visit me after he left we spoke that day I sent him a pic he said nice and that was it and now I haven't spoken to him in almost 3 weeks I texted and called, emailed, and sent him fb messages but he hasn't returned any of them.. But I do see he posted twice on his fb page but only through mobile... We had planned for me to come visit NEXT weekend, but he's still not responding to any of my messages I just dont understand, he gave no inkling something was wrong or that he wanted to break-up? It just seems like im in denial or dont want to believe its over or there's something missing because I asked at the beginning of our relationship if he met someone he wanted to date would he tell me, he said yes he wouls be honest with, if that ever happened, I guess im holding on to that. Its been a month now amd by now ive probably sent a dozen texts, emails, fb messages, bur stil no response
lop98 Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 Yeah, stop messaging but kick him out of your life for good, you really don't want someone that pulls this kind of crap, trust me, you don't. I too was hung out on someone like this and the more he ignored me, the harder it was to quit him... it took me over two months of solid no contact (very hard to do, I was like on drugs, I wanted answers, to 'fix' things- mostly I just wanted my fix) to realize someone that won't communicate and is okay leading someone on and seeing that person go a little crazy over their silent game and playing with feelings is not worth a single second of your time, now or ever. You'll find better, I promise... 2
forgetmenot75 Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 Why did you message him so much? One message and that should be enough. He doesn't want yo talk to you, leave him alone. 1
Author venus1173 Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 I think im beginning to falter... im just so hurt by this, he told me he loved me... all this ignoring/avoiding was not called for nor necessary
Author venus1173 Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 No, I dont that for certain, but if he can update fb he can text or message me back
Author venus1173 Posted August 17, 2013 Author Posted August 17, 2013 Even though it was 11 days ago..
Oneforme33 Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 Sweetie, he is a coward. He is updating facebook in an intentional effort to get you to see he isn't responding to you. Think about how much hurt he is intentionally causing you. If he loved you he wouldn't hurt you. That's what I focus on. Think about how much you cared and how he used that and didn't respect it. Then get angry and go NC out of your own desire to never see him again.
aspiringuitarheroine Posted August 17, 2013 Posted August 17, 2013 I think im beginning to falter... im just so hurt by this, he told me he loved me... all this ignoring/avoiding was not called for nor necessary Yes it is. It is necessary to heal. With every text, you drive him further away.
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