miffymars Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 So Ive been in a relationship for 2 years with my ex, it was great in the beginning but turned sour in the end. He got emotionally abusive and got physical once. Been through a lot with him even almost had a child with him but ultimately decided it wasn't a good idea. It kind of left me a bit traumatized. 6 months after of trying to make things work and planning our future he broke up with me in a text message telling me he wasn't available to give 100% in the relationship, there was no closure I was left with so many unanswered questions. This came out of left field. I was heartbroken because he was the only guy I've ever truly loved enough to stay and make it work despite the way he treated me and everything we've been through. Its now been nearly 2 months of NC and im trying my hardest to heal. Out of the blue he text messages me this... "I'm sorry, may we talk about everything someday, please? I know I am late at everything and please give it a thought. Thank you." I don't know what to do. Is this him reaching out to me only because whoever he may have been seeing after/during being with me isn't working out? Are these breadcrumbs?? Please help, any advice as to how I should handle this? I really don't know what to do...
onearthur Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 Re-read what you just posted as a stranger and I think therein you will find your answer. There is never an excuse for a man to get physically abusive to a woman and like cheaters if he can do it once, then it will happen again. Be grateful you don't have a family or other commitments and start to move on with your life. You & every woman in any relationship deserve better. Also, it's very important to understand that what you are going through is incredibly tough but it's important for you to see it through otherwise you could live a life full of regret. Hope that helps, keep us posted. So Ive been in a relationship for 2 years with my ex, it was great in the beginning but turned sour in the end. He got emotionally abusive and got physical once. Been through a lot with him even almost had a child with him but ultimately decided it wasn't a good idea. It kind of left me a bit traumatized. 6 months after of trying to make things work and planning our future he broke up with me in a text message telling me he wasn't available to give 100% in the relationship, there was no closure I was left with so many unanswered questions. This came out of left field. I was heartbroken because he was the only guy I've ever truly loved enough to stay and make it work despite the way he treated me and everything we've been through. Its now been nearly 2 months of NC and im trying my hardest to heal. Out of the blue he text messages me this... "I'm sorry, may we talk about everything someday, please? I know I am late at everything and please give it a thought. Thank you." I don't know what to do. Is this him reaching out to me only because whoever he may have been seeing after/during being with me isn't working out? Are these breadcrumbs?? Please help, any advice as to how I should handle this? I really don't know what to do...
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