rice Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 Was-up people, I have a promblem with my girlfriend right now and it's been happening. We started out as friends when she had her boyfriend. but then she became confused and broke up with him to be with me. we've been going out for five months and going on six starting november. In those past five months we've been broken up and back together three time all because of her. those three breakups we her wanting to break up with me. but eventually she comes back to me and ask for another chance...seeing that i love this girl i've always given her the chances and never had a doubt. But now she seems confused and doesn't wnat the relationship because she says that we're moving to fast and that she doesn't want that. Now that makes me confused as well for the fact that in the past five months she has been telling me that she loves me and even told me once that she was crazy in love with me! I've given her her space to go and hang out with her friends whenever she wants, when time was hard for us because we couldn't talk to each other when either one wasn't home or on the internet i went out and got me and her both cell-phones, i've bought her a promise ring and she accepted it, everything that a gentle man would do for the person that he loves. but then one day she goes out and hangs out with her ex bf. Now because i didn't really like her ex-bf. i told her that she shouldn't go and hang out with him especially when she can't tell me what hanging out means or what they are going to be doing? but then i also said to her "but who am i to tell you who and who not to go and hang out with" so eventually she went and hang out with him. Eversince then she has been acting strange and saying all this i don't want this fast moving relationship and believe that i was being ridiculous when i was mad at her? She also mention that for the past five months she doesn't even know me because i don't open up to her? and that she knows her ex boyfriend betterthan she knows me? And this is a relationship that i don't want to let go off becuase i love this gurl and know that i jus need to work on what she says but i need advice on how to apporach these changes. So to anyone other there who has any suggestion on what this means or how to better the relationship, plz plz plz write back a.s.a.p.
DJ_Dork Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 piece of advice which you might learn later on. before dating a woman or considering on dating a woman. ask her single status: if she gives you: i just broke up with a bf a couple weeks ago. DO NOT DATE HER. if she gives you: i just broke up with a bf *more* than 6 months ago. GO. if she gives you: i'm sorta dating/i'm in an on/off/divorce process. DO NOT DATE HER. if she gives you: i have not been in a relationship in a year(or more, or never better yet). GO What I'm trying to say is, you want to date someone totally single or at least single more than 6 months. I have no doubt this girl you're dating who is hanging out with her ex is probably sleeping with him. After this you can worry about how to make a relationship better.. if you want to, DO A SEARCH in this forum.
bluechocolate Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 What it means? It sounds to me that she is not over the ex b/f. She broke up with him to be with you then breaks up with you to hang out with him (3 times in 5 months !!). Then throws the ex in your face by saying things like she knows him better than you?! She's messing with you. Let her be with him.
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