Diesel Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 We have been together for 3 years and she has been hiding about our relationship from her parents everything was going great , I used to give her love letter , 2 love letters per week the reoson why she was hiding about us from her parents is they are really strick and muslims and my GF is just 14. Today when i gave her the letter she took it and kept it in her cupboard she forgot to close the cupboard and her MOM found it and read what i wrote to her , her MOM got really furious and scream on my GF to stop all that , my GF is very sensitive and will agree whatever her mom tells her , The other day when i met her she told me to END our relationship becouse her mom will never want us to be together , but i know she still loves me and i too it's just that her MOM wont let our relationship. Please help me what should i do in this matter ? I'm really missin' her
Author Diesel Posted October 29, 2004 Author Posted October 29, 2004 Yeah i do but we dont talk anymore cause she told me not to. but iam damn sure she still loves me and misses me everytime.
Urban Rubble01 Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 Well, you need to talk to her. If she is unwilling, just tell her that you've got to get a few things out and if she cared about you she'll listen to you whether her mother wants her to or not. You've got to explain that, while it is important to listen to your parents, it's also important to do what you believe is best for yourself. Tell her you understand if she can't see you, but at the same time tell her how you feel and tell her that she cannot let her mother have complete control. I guess it just comes down to whether or not she's willing to disobey mom. At any rate, you're only 14 man. I know this probably doesn't help, but if youcan't see her anymore you'll get over her fairly quick. I was actually in this same type of situation when I was around you age. She couldn't keep it up and I got over her fairly quickly, no biggy. I knew we were young and that this wasn't my true love. So don't let it get you down man, you'll meet so many girls in the coming years that you'll look back on this and laugh.
Author Diesel Posted October 30, 2004 Author Posted October 30, 2004 Urban Rubble01 , This is a true love i sometimes cry when i miss her. yesterday she told me to stop talking to her becouse it had affected her studies also her mother have known about us and she is really strick she'll kill her if she sees her again with me or she'll tell my DAD this will be like an embaracement for us , maybe her mothers thinks i'm just playing with her daughter ? I dont know what to do , i dont want any other girls , I want her , she my first loves and i'm not going to leave her like this , she still loves me i know it's just that her MOM is not allowing her to talk with me. Please guys i dont know what should i do now ? i see her at school but we dont talk. Right now I'm so ****ing missing her and i know i wont be able to forget her. Help me
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