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theloyalone1

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*curious*

Why is that people laugh

When you say you want

To wait till your married

To give the cookies?

My cookies never been given

*hint hint*

But I always hear "no sample"

You might end up burnt. Lol

It can be tough when you

Have girlfriends talking

About there "stories"

*sigh*

BradJacobs Established Member

BradJacobs

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I'm not about to wait until marriage to figure out that my wife and I do not have compatible sexual preferences.

 

I don't laugh at others because I understand the decision to wait. I simply don't agree with it as it won't work for me.

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Keenly Established Member

Keenly

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Lets turn it into a different analogy.

 

 

Let's say that its berries we are talking about. Berries you will be eating for the rest of your life.

 

 

I would kind of like the make sure the berries are not poisonous, or else I am in for a rough ride.

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sillyanswer Established Member

sillyanswer

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*curious*

Why is that people laugh

When you say you want

To wait till your married

To give the cookies?

 

Because it's a

Really unusual

Way to behave

These days.

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theloyalone1 Member

theloyalone1

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Thanks you guys for the advice.

That's what I'm possibly afraid

Of if we run into a burnt cookie. Lol

And divorce isn't an option so

I guess just gonna have to wait

And see....

tbf Established Member

tbf

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If it's termed

as cookies

the vernacular usages

for cookies

puts funny spins

on cookies.

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CarrieT Established Member

CarrieT

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Why do you feel the need to share this nugget with people. Why not keep your business to yourself? Most people don't care about your sex life, or lack thereof. Why not just keep that to yourself, sharing only with potential life partners.

 

And why

** praytell **

does the OP

feel the need

to communicate

this sort of blither

in an odd

spacial verbiage?

:p:p:p

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Sarabi Established Member

Sarabi

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Why do you feel the need to share this nugget with people. Why not keep your business to yourself? Most people don't care about your sex life, or lack thereof. Why not just keep that to yourself, sharing only with potential life partners.

 

Maybe to remind others how poor our morals are and how we have no self respect :confused:

I have friends who remained virgins until they were married...at the grand old age of 20-22 :rolleyes: and used to say this type of thing.

HOWEVER!!! I watched a documentary when I was at university about these pledges/silver ring things/vows of abstinence. Research showed that those keeping their virginity/taking these pledges of abstinence were at a distinct disadvantage over those who were having sex...because if they did decide to break their pledges they were far more naïve and ignorant about the use of contraception therefore more likely to get pregnant or get STIs...than their peers with perceived "loose" morals

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theloyalone1 Member

theloyalone1

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wisernow

 

I suppose your right

But I shared it close friends of mines

Its not like I wear it as a logo lol

But I guess what's said is done and

If my girls talk it just keep my mouth

Close

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theloyalone1

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wisernow

 

I suppose your right

But I shared it close friends of mines

Its not like I wear it as a logo lol

But I guess what's said is done and

If my girls talk it just keep my mouth

Close.

 

Sarabi

Not the case lol

I'm not about the life of rubbing

This in anyone face.

My girlfriends share there detail

Stories and always try to add me to the convo

Sarabi Established Member

Sarabi

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Well I personally think its far more impressive for someone over 25 to say they were a virgin until marriage compared to those who were in their early twenties :o

I always thought those that marry younger to lose virginity in a sacred/legal way seem to grasp at the first lady or gent to give them a sniff of attention...it might or might not work out.

One of said virginal-until-married friends has two children and emailed me to tell me "enjoy the single life. Don't rush...we can't remember the last time we had a proper nights sleep"

;) lol

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theloyalone1 Member

theloyalone1

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Sarabi-

I appreciate those kind words.

It is rare and even find a male

Virgin is slim..lol. But I have hope.

Babies? Well I don't want kids of

My own. I prefer to marry someone

Who also doesn't want kids or who

Already has a precious bundle of joy :)

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theloyalone1 Member

theloyalone1

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Blaidd Drwg-

Lol @ mrs fields

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theloyalone1 Member

theloyalone1

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Lol hahahahaa oh my *blush* thank you!!!

Well I can tell your a computer whiz and

You know your way with computer tech.

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fortyninethousand322

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*curious*

Why is that people laugh

When you say you want

To wait till your married

To give the cookies?

My cookies never been given

*hint hint*

But I always hear "no sample"

You might end up burnt. Lol

It can be tough when you

Have girlfriends talking

About there "stories"

*sigh*

 

I'd laugh because using the word "cookies" as a euphemism for sex is weird. Something pre-teens would probably do.

 

Just come out and say the word "sex".

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aussietigerwolf Established Member

aussietigerwolf

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what kind of cookies are we talking about? choc chip? cream filled? Anzac? :p

Sarabi Established Member

Sarabi

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Sarabi-

I appreciate those kind words.

It is rare and even find a male

Virgin is slim..lol. But I have hope.

Babies? Well I don't want kids of

My own. I prefer to marry someone

Who also doesn't want kids or who

Already has a precious bundle of joy :)

 

I'm sure if you look in the right places you'll find someone suitable ;)

Are you religious?

So you don't want your own kids...you want to adopt? Good for you :) I have always thought you do not need to be pregnant to be a parent. I would like to adopt at least one child but we'll see...there is plenty of the "oh I want my own genes passed on for generations" stuff bandied around by people...

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theloyalone1 Member

theloyalone1

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fortyninethousand322 -Thanks. Lol

 

Aussietigerwolf- plea the 5th lol

 

Sarabi-

I hope so. I was thinking of googling

" Top 10 Places to meet male virgins"

Lol. Google has everything!. Lol

I'm spiritual if that makes a difference

But to be honest my decision is from more

Towards a moral/value thing. I thought about

Adopting :) maybe..let's just hope I meet

Someone similiar to me. Lol. I'm auntie of

A 3year old boy and 1yr old twin boys. I'm ok. Lol

you want to adopt? That's cool

A boy or girl? I know especially being a male

They want the family history to continue.

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theloyalone1 Member

theloyalone1

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contrefaire-

Its a habit sometimes when I

Type like that. Lol see? Lol

You say tomatoe, I say tomatoe

Lol . Lol haaha :)

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