breezylove Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 (edited) Me and my now ex boyfriend of 7 months broke up a month ago. He broke up because he is a Kurd and I'm a Turk. And Kurds and Turks don't like eachother and have REALLY different political views. So he thought it would be a problem for us in the future, because of our families. It was a really hard dicision for him because he still loves me like I love him. He even asked his mother for advice where she told him it wasn't a good idea. He really cried alot, but broke up in the end to spare us both from problems in the future. We have ALL the same classes at the university and we are in the same group of friends, so we kind of have no other options than staying friends. None of us are mad at eachother. We have a summer break now and there is still a month for school to start. We've met twice and talked on the phone once every 3rd day during the break. He is usually really positive and tells me that it's possible that we can stay as friends even though we both have feelings, but a week ago he called me in the AM and told me that it somtimes seemed impossible to him :/ But now he is all back to being positive about it again. I don't know what to do. I'm really afraid that he will move on before me and start dating other girls. It would break me so much to see him with other girls. Do you think we can just be friends when we see each other everyday and have strong feelings for eachother? Not only the feelings, but the attraction is really strong too. We are REALLY attracted to eachother. what would you do in this situation? btw he is my first love. Does that make it more difficult for me to move on and stay friends? Edited July 29, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Author breezylove Posted July 29, 2013 Author Posted July 29, 2013 isn't there someone here to help me? lol:)
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