deans8989 Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 Hi just after some advice and opinions. My ex gf and I were dating for 14months. She lived with me for 6months but recently moved back in with her mum. Things were great and we had the usual fight but we did love each other and we did alot for each other. 3 weeks ago she came out of now where and said she was confused and wanted a break. I gave her space for a few days and later contacted her and she said she was still confused. I immediately thought she was seeing another guy but she said she wasn't. Guess I'll never know the real reason all she said was she was confused but she still loves me. I said if you love me than surely you can be with me. 2 weeks later we are still in the same position and she was getting hot and cold. I got sick of the games and told her I still love her and want her back but Im giving her space. Basically said Im not going to contact you if you change your mind than you have to contact me. I do want her back. Am I right in letting her go and seeing what will happen from it or should I just forget it and move on?
darkmoon Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 you say that she blows hot and cold, atmo, I do not think she knows what she wants, you might as well move on a bit and date others
TaraMaiden Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I'm guessing you're both quite young, early 20's....? That being the case, this is completely normal. And very frequent. Let her go, move on, establish complete NC.
Author deans8989 Posted July 28, 2013 Author Posted July 28, 2013 Yeah Im 24, shes 20. Guess NC is all there is to it than. Thanks for the replies
TaraMaiden Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 you say that she blows hot and cold, atmo, I do not think she knows what she wants, you might as well move on a bit and date others To further explain, deans8989, this is why.
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