dan7 Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 Everyone is welcome to chime in, but I'd appreciate a woman's perspective. Here's my situation. I have fallen for this girl that I met online last year on a dating website and we went on a few dates. I would spend time at her apartment and take her out to dinner, movies, road trips, etc. I finally mustered up the courage to ask her if she wanted a relationship and she hugged me and said, " I really like you a lot ,but I'm not ready yet." We went out a few more times and I never brought it up again. This was several months ago and we still talk, but I don't know what to do now and wonder if I should pursue this or leave it alone. I'm really head over heels for her and I am thinking about sending flowers for her birthday. What should I do?
juliagabrielle Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I would hope that she would eventually come back to you and go forward with the relationship, but it's been months and you've received no answer from her. I would say to move on, or better yet: Tell her how you feel! Say you've fallen for her, want a relationship, and you can't stop waiting. If she declines, move on. I wish you luck. 1
unluckycat Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I agree with Julia, I would tell her how you feel about her, but if she still says something like "I'm not ready." then move on. You could possibly still be friends with her, but I wouldn't give her alot of attention if that happens. And I would only stay friends with her if she gave YOU some attention after that too.
Author dan7 Posted July 28, 2013 Author Posted July 28, 2013 thanks for the advice ladies. appreciate it, gives me some kind of clarity for this situation.
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