KatZee Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 So just a general question... if there is a strong connection between two people, do both feel that "tingly" feeling in the gut? I'm obviously aware that one person can be into someone without reciprocation but if both people are being affectionate with each other, acting caring towards the other and one person feels that "tingle" do you think the other person feels that too?
Mascara Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Well yes... that's how people end up falling in love. They both feel it. That said, I think generally there's always one person who cares a <little> more than the other. 1
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 I know in my experience with my man, we both felt an extreme connection and chemistry from the moment we laid eyes on one another. 1
Author KatZee Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 I know in my experience with my man, we both felt an extreme connection and chemistry from the moment we laid eyes on one another. In my situation, I feel this "spark" with this guy. If he so much as just touches me (we were cuddling last night) I had this gut churning sensation/tingle. As the night went on he was just slowly kissing me for a long while, brushing my hair back and scratching my scalp, gave me a shoulder massage, intertwined his legs with mine and wrapped his arm around me. I'm wondering if he's feeling that "spark" too.
ThaWholigan Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I think that the spark, to me, can be defined as complementary energies between two people - each dynamic experienced differently by the two individuals. How that is reconciled between the two of them is down to how aware of themselves they are, not so much as they are aware of each other. So it may be that both people feel a spark, but maybe that spark is experienced differently by one. Hence why it is often noted that one "cares a little more than the other". I think it's too much of a sweeping statement to be truthful all the time - albeit there are many instances where spark is felt by one and isn't really picked up by the other for whatever reason. Perhaps the energies were not complementary. I dunno, I'm babbling.
unluckycat Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I always wondered about the "spark" so this is a good topic. For years I felt a strong connection and spark with my last boyfriend. But 10 years after we've had a relationship, he'd tell me time and time again he didn't feel the spark. Which makes me wonder why we were together for so long.
Chichirula Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 My boyfriend tried to find the spark again. He tried for 8 months. And although i felt his love i was aware there was no spark for him. Which reflected on me especially having sex. When the spark was there, you know it, you can feel it, you can see it in the eyes and the smile. The intensity is amazing. Sad when it's gone.
LittleTiger Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 When both people feel that spark, that's when you fall in love. Great relationships have 'sparks' coming from both sides. Not much point otherwise - for either of you.
Emilia Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 So just a general question... if there is a strong connection between two people, do both feel that "tingly" feeling in the gut? I'm obviously aware that one person can be into someone without reciprocation but if both people are being affectionate with each other, acting caring towards the other and one person feels that "tingle" do you think the other person feels that too? Yes, the nerves give it away. You can feel it with that person even years down the line after not seeing them for a long time. Usually gets unleashed during sex 1
ForeverHopeful1 Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I had met my H in highschool. He was 18 and I was 15. I only had eyes for my boyfriend and didn't ever notice him as more than a friend. It would have been bad for us to date then anyway. Lol. He thought I was very special but I paid him no mind. 4 years later, my best friend and his best friend set us up on a blind date not knowing we knew one another and he had no idea he would be set up with a girl he wanted in highschool. Our blind date wasn't all that blind! Anyway, he came to pick me up and low and behold, there he was. He said with a huge smile, "I know you!!!!!" I hugged him. I felt instantly connected to him though. Like never before. We drove to our dinner date, and during that car ride, we passed an intersection. One of the streets was his Last name. Right then and there this thought when through my head. *You're going to marry this man* So he has felt the connection for 14 years and thought he would never see me again after highschool. I have felt the connection with him from the.moment he picked me up for our "blind date" almost 10 years ago. We got married 10.10.10 and will be celebrating our 3 year wedding anniversary in October.
Sarabi Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I felt a very strong connection with someone I met at work one day...he eventually said a few months later that he felt it too... When I was talking about a guy I was seeing, a colleague kept pestering and fishing to find out who it was lol...in the end when I told him he said he had known all along...because he could tell when me and that guy met that there was some kind of energy/electricity between us Anyway. Silly me. It was a relationship that shouldn't have happened
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