Mylec Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Ok so ive started talking to this girl who i met from a friend. Shes a great girl, but has had some issues in the past. Her parents both passed away when she was around 8. Also she was in serious relationship which ended 4 years ago (they were still hooking up, up until last summer). Shes still in love with him even though hes living with another girl (she doesnt even talk to him anymore). Now this is the problem, shes "dated" a bunch of people afterwards, most wanted to be her boyfriend but she gets weirded out as soon as someone tries to put a label on the relationship and she usually ends it. Ive been with her for over a month now and i'd say we're dating. I sleep at her place or she sleeps here 3-4 times a week. We have sex, we kiss in public when drinking, and she sits by my side when we go out. She told me from the get go she doesnt want a boyfriend, yet she treats me just like one. Shes not talking to anyone else and she says the exact same thing to every person she dates,thats she'll eventually hurt them(not intentionally). To me i think shes scared of being close to someone and getting hurt but she just wont budge with me, at least not yet. What should i do? I dont want to just give up.
EvansR Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 As far as I'm concerned, not every relationship needs a title. If you're happy with what you've got, why put pressure on it by giving it a title? You are in essence her boyfriend!
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