Should I tell my ex's boyfriend? Is it the right thing to do?

[guyman123]

My ex and I broke up three months ago, but she led me on the entire summer and told me she would get back with me. All the while, she was already dating someone else without me knowing. We then had sex a few weeks later, but she refuses to tell her current boyfriend because it was none of his business since they weren't technically dating at that time. He broke up with her the weekend before she moved three hours away to a university because he couldn't trust her up there. They got back together a few days later. I feel it isn't fair to the three of us that she's hiding such a big secret. Should I respectfully tell her new boyfriend what happened? I know life isn't fair, but it seriously isn't. She ended up with what she wanted while I have to deal with all the things surrounded by a bad breakup while he is being lied to.

[theonlyjuan]

Not your problem. It's up to him

[NiceFails]

I would tell him. And never hear from her again.

[tinker683]

No. You need to walk away from this and no longer insert yourself into this relationship. Let the two of them sort it out. Cut all ties with this girl.

 

Not your problem. It's up to him

 

This.

 

People like this have a tendency to bring ruin on to themselves. Best if you were far away so you won't get caught in the wake of the chaos that's bound to follow...

[AllTooWell]

I feel like you want to tell him not because it is the "right" thing to do, but because you want the revenge.

 

I wouldn't tell him. It isn't your business either. Sounds like their relationship is crap enough as it is and it'll fall apart without your help.

 

 

Tell HER you don't want to her from her ever again, block her, block HIM, and then move on.