rastamoose Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Do you feel that your relationship was worth it now that it is over? I had some great days but I am not sure it's been worth the suffering. If this breakup is setting me on the path to happiness, yes it will have been worth it. I guess it has taught me a few lessons about myself and relationships. Would be nice to be able to learn these lessons without having to go through all this. What about you?
keepontruckin Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Three months ago I might have stated otherwise, but honestly I don't regret a thing.
theonlyjuan Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 It's been 7 weeks tomorrow, I think. I didn't have a bad breakup and I think we have potential to be good friends, if we both wanted. Sometimes it feels like a waste of time because I put so much effort in, maybe too much. I was forcing it a bit and lying to myself that she and it was perfect and great. I've learnt things about myself like convincing myself I like any girl that shows interest back, just because I hate being alone. Sacrificing things I enjoyed to please her, trying to change myself to how I thought she would like a bf to be. It changes. When I am in a bad mood, I feel like I wasted my time and effort. When I am in a good mood, I don't have regrets and think it was worth it because I enjoyed myself at the time. Time changes how people feel. I would say the first few months are full of resentment and regret. When you are over your ex and with someone else, you might make a thread on was all the sadness,depression,crying, worth it? I think most of us will look back and think it wasn't. When I look back on 2 previous girls that I was grieving over, I think to myself " Why? I really over reacted. I feel like such an idiot " I actually laugh so much at my reaction to one of them. Pain subsides and something else takes its place. That's how life seems to go
LME Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 (edited) Yeah, my ex is a great person and i don't regret one day i spent with him. That is the hardest part of the breakup for me though, i really liked spending time with him even though the relationship was more of a friendship towards the end. It's not so much him not being my bf anymore it's just not having that good friend to hang out with. it just wasn't meant to be i guess Edited July 27, 2013 by LME
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