youcanever Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Hey, I know it is wrong but i still check up on my ex's social media and seeîng her new pictures. I dont feel any anger towards her, just heartache that ît is over and î miss her. I am not wanting her sexually. She is so cute and beautiful and î feel lîke everything will be great if we give it a try again. On the other hand i know i am creating these in my mînd and she is no perfect for me and she doesnt respect me. Why do i keep feeling like that and want her? I just want to kiss her cheeks. So cute.
jesse93 Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 no, block her on facebook you're not over her yet man, you're going to end up seeing something thats going to break your heart even more do a favor for yourself and block her.. i know its hard but you gotta do it. 2
Author youcanever Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 no, block her on facebook you're not over her yet man, you're going to end up seeing something thats going to break your heart even more do a favor for yourself and block her.. i know its hard but you gotta do it. I know one day i will see a pic to hurt me so much. She is even goîng to germany and amsterdam for 2 weeks. I am sure she will kîss or hook up wîth someone. This pains make me work on myself and push me harder. But eventually it will start hurting when i have free time and alone.
jesse93 Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 i mean if you believe that it will help you then i guess theres nothing i can do, but i know if i went and looked at my exs facebook i would be heart broken even if there wasnt a pic of her with another guy yea she is beautiful, but i still don't want to see her that brings too many memories back.. the memories i'm trying to forget
NewPerspective93 Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 It's normal, but dude, don't dwell on any memories of her. Don't stalk her on her FB! You're only holding yourself back from moving on. If you keep on looking at her profile and thinking about her you'll only prolong the feelings you hold, as well as the pain. Block her. As for those moments in which you're alone, try to keep yourself busy. If you leave yourself with free time, those are the moments in which your feelings might crawl back in. Cheers. 1
supaflyz Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 It's normal. I was driving around and drinking with a a classmate of ours. She mention my ex, and tha tmy ex is doing good. Told me my ex pass her board exam and starts working next week. I was happy for her. In my mind I wanted to unblock her on facebook to check things out, but I realized it won't help the situation. Its been so long since we talk that I don't think it will help with anything. This is just a normal process bro.
Author youcanever Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 Is there any way to get ex back? I know it is stupîd but ı feel she is perfect for me and she is so special. She is only 19 and she sings jazz, have hobbies, travels in europe, have great dreams about future, rides glider, people love her, so cute, funny. Is there any girl like her? I havent met.
keepontruckin Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Is there any way to get ex back? I know it is stupîd but ı feel she is perfect for me and she is so special. No. You could come back as Jesus Christ, but with the face of a young 21 Jump Street Johnny Depp arriving at her door driving a dump truck filled with gold bullion... It wouldn't make a difference. Is there any girl like her? I havent met. Of course there isn't. Nobody is identical. There are women out there that will be worse for you, and there are women out there that will be better for you.
Author youcanever Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 No. You could come back as Jesus Christ, but with the face of a young 21 Jump Street Johnny Depp arriving at her door driving a dump truck filled with gold bullion... It wouldn't make a difference. Of course there isn't. Nobody is identical. There are women out there that will be worse for you, and there are women out there that will be better for you. I dont think i will meet a girl like her ever again. She was amazing. One day she will make a guy so happy and i wont be that guy. That hurts.
keepontruckin Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 I dont think i will meet a girl like her ever again. She was amazing. One day she will make a guy so happy and i wont be that guy. That hurts. And one day my soon to be ex wife may make another man happy also (if she hasn't done so already)... Of course, he is going to have to accept that she has gained a few pounds since I first met her, is sort of lazy doing her fair share of housework, is terrible with her finances, cannot endure criticism at all but is overly critical of others, is a b!tch when it's that time of the month, and just runs away when the going gets tough... See what I'm getting at?
Inviv_girl Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 19 years old, at this age people haven't fully developed. Still confuse and don't know what they want, because in fact there is still a long way to go and experience more in life. Even if there is a chance you get back together with her it will not last long. You and her are ended, accept it and move on. You only prolong your heartache even more by stalking her social media. Dust yourself and do better for yourself, if you want someone like her or even better will fall for you.
Author youcanever Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 And one day my soon to be ex wife may make another man happy also (if she hasn't done so already)... Of course, he is going to have to accept that she has gained a few pounds since I first met her, is sort of lazy doing her fair share of housework, is terrible with her finances, cannot endure criticism at all but is overly critical of others, is a b!tch when it's that time of the month, and just runs away when the going gets tough... See what I'm getting at? I see what you did there Also i can write couple of things about her. About how selfish she îs, or how îndependent and doesnt care what you want. I got my dream job 2 months ago and before that i was the one who ran after her but she always told meeting once a week is enough. For me it wasnt. Also when i got the job then she started acting weird and told meeting once a week is not enough. Whn she was working she had 1 hour lunch break and i always wanted to talk to her but she only spared 10 mins if i am lucky. And in my second day of work i was at lunch and she called ( she neve did before) but i said lets talk later because it was second day and i was getting to know my co workers. And she got mad! She did same thing to me for months ans whn i do once she got mad? And sh always told me her parents doesnt let her do anything an she wasnt stsying with me and now she is going europe for 2 weeks I see what you mean pal. As much as i miss her she was so annoying and i am better without her. At least i have my selfrespect and in peace. Girls started to seem attractive again. I must move on even sometimes ît is hard.
keepontruckin Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 The problem is, the dumper only remembers the bad things. The dumpee (me) initially only remembered the good things. This went on for months. I cried, I begged, I promised to change certain things about me (and was serious!). I became angry, then sad, then angry... It made no difference. What helped me is to realize that she was far from perfect also. She had a ton of flaws, but I dealt with them as just a part of her personality. That's just what loving couples do. Now I focus on her flaws if I start putting her too high up on the pedestal... It does bring a "realism," if you will, to the entire situation...
orionboxing Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Hey, I know it is wrong but i still check up on my ex's social media and seeîng her new pictures. I dont feel any anger towards her, just heartache that ît is over and î miss her. Almost everyone does this and checks in on the ex. Whether you are the dumped or are the one doing the dumping, something about someone you had a tremendous amount of love for will always keep you wondering and thinking about them and how great they were at some point in your relationship. It's heartache and it just takes some time. I am not wanting her sexually. LIAR. She is so cute and beautiful and î feel lîke everything will be great if we give it a try again. Maybe. But she needs to want you. You need to be both on the same page...relationships can't be one-sided. She doesnt respect me. A pretty good reason not to be with someone. Would you keep a friend around who constantly just put you down? Why do i keep feeling like that and want her? I just want to kiss her cheeks. So cute. Because you still love her...but at some point you won't. Your only 19 and you will cross paths with a ton of women in the next several years. The best way to get over someone is find someone else. You have to realize that she'll find someone very quickly after you. Girls never have trouble getting a guy. Go out and beat her to the punch!!!
Emma1234 Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 There are always better people out there, I went through this stage of thinking that I'll never find anyone the same as him with the same traits, likes and dreams but I now know that's silly. There are people out there more suited to us just because they have similar if not better traits AND they will never leave us because they love us. And on another note, I travel and volunteer round Europe, sing and play guitar, have dreams that I love. Girls aren't black and white, there are a million girls out there who all do just as interesting things as your ex. For now just enjoy being single and young and find who you truly want to be! Who knows what the future holds, it's promised for no one
HobGadling Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 If she's made it clear she wants nothing to do with you then block her. I'm coming round to the no contact thing. I was against it once because I used it for the wrong reasons. If looking at her profile brings you pain then block her. Also, you are young. I was obsessed with a girl at 19. Now, I have fond memories of her but other women have come to take her place. All I can say is. This isn't the first time this will happen. You're going to get your heart broken several times. But each time you will be a little wiser, the wounds MAY not sting as much. Emotions aren't as operatic as you get older, but they are far more subtle and permeate your thoughts more deeply. She's young and wants to experience other things. You should too. But not to get back at her. Because only by getting out there and trying new things will you learn that their are better women for you out there. Keep your memories of her and treasure them. But block her Facebook until you are sure you can look at it without feeling anything.
NewPerspective93 Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I dont think i will meet a girl like her ever again. She was amazing. One day she will make a guy so happy and i wont be that guy. That hurts. Experiences like this will make you learn and become an even stronger individual. Just because you think you might not find someone like her doesn't mean you won't ever find someone. She's 19. Most women are mature in their mid 20's to 30's, so I wouldn't bet your chips here for her when she's not that experienced. You'll find someone else. It will get better. As time progresses, other women will start becoming more appealing and you won't think about your ex anymore but who you'll want to be with. Cheers.
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