affairaddict Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 I'm sorry but that clown analogy is just from one side of the fence. One size does not fit all.
Got it Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 I'm sorry but that clown analogy is just from one side of the fence. One size does not fit all. What do you mean? The pronouns are not necessarily static. The Clown can be a feeling, a person, a situation, yourself. The clown means basically the definition of insanity - doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
TaraMaiden Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 The problem is, that the OP isn't 'doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result.' She's using a thimble to put out a camp-fire, while there's a raging inferno going on in her home. 1
missy268 Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 There are times where i do wonder about him, how things are with the new girlfriend - are they still together - will I ever see him again, and I do wonder if he ever thinks of me. If he ever did think anything of me, I am sure he does wonder if i'm okay But now - we have been NC for 15 weeks and i haven't seen him for 17 weeks! I do worry about him turning up because the hard work i have done to remain NC ,and to get on with my life , I don't want to actually see him, but one day I might as we still work for the same company and i have to be prepared for the emotion that will come with it I am 10000% sure i don't want to go back one more time....and it is really hard but you have to keep moving - just because you think of him, doesn't mean you need to go back there. As i tell myself, he was bad for me, I am happier, there is a reason - its because he is not in my life! xx
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