samsungxoxo Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 I was wondering if this will be an issue to my other future relationship(s). I will eventually date someone else but will my new potential bf have a problem with this? I don't plan to ever get back together with my ex bf and he is ok with this. It really was my ex bf that broke NC and I replied back and both decided to remain permanent friends. I have no other exes (no FWB either), just him.
hestheone66 Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 I would never consider dating anyone who could not allow me contact with people who I believe are significant to me, exes or otherwise. If they are insecure, at the beginning, it's likely to get worse. If maintaining your existing friendships are important to you, it would be a deal breaker and let them know that up front before feelings could potentially get hurt.
Author samsungxoxo Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 True if they can't handle our friendship to the point of wanting me to go NC again, I'm not going to do that. I've just realized he is wonderful as a friend.
gaius Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 I guess it would depend on what resume contact means. An hour phone call once a month or a lunch date every week? The former might be tolerable but any guy worth his salt wouldn't put up with the latter.
Author samsungxoxo Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 I guess it would depend on what resume contact means. An hour phone call once a month or a lunch date every week? The former might be tolerable but any guy worth his salt wouldn't put up with the latter.We've recently contacted each other through facebook. He'll be calling at times and vice-versa but not too much, just once a in while as in saying ''Hey how you doing''? and so on. Online is where we contact each other a bit more than through phone.
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