Patty Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 I'm feeling very frustrated with my friend.Me and her dont seem to talk much to each other these days cause she had said some things to me that hurt me.For example she would say things about my guy to worry me.And one day at work I was crying after what she told me.Then after I start crying she tells him I'm crazy for crying,when she was the one that started it.I get worried that she will tell him more untrue things about me.I dont trust her. Im upset cause she is already Spanish and has a big advantage of stealing him.For me its more of a disadvantage cause of the communication gap and she knows I wont be able to talk to him to resolve it and thats the reason she does it.I feel real jealous too.She tries to irritate me.I think its kind of cruel.Just cause she is Spanish doesnt mean she should take him from me. Today she got him to put his hand on her which made my stomach turn when I saw this.I looked over at her and had a disgusted look on my face cause I wasnt to happy.And my guy did see me when I made that look.Shes constantly getting near him and one time I saw her with his jacket on.She is over friendly with him.I know she is doing it to start trouble and it just irritates me.She loves it when she worries me.Then she laughs about it thinking its so funny and he laughs too. I really wish I could get him to pay attention to me. Patty
tiki Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Patty, any man that would leave you for a friend is not worth your time. Be glad you found out soon. Show him no interest.
kiwi29f Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 You call this girl your friends?? & this your boyfriend?? It doesn't sound like a friend to me. Why does her being spanish have anything to do with her having an advantage over you?? I don't understand that. If she is doing this and your bf thinks its unny, then he doesn't care about you & you shouldn't be with him. If he had any kind of respect for you he would ignore her. I would drop him & find someone who cares about you. I would stay as far away from this girl as possible, she's nothing but trouble.
sami Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 If he will leave because she told him you were crying or something then what will he do when you fall sick or get pregnant by him one day? Sorry, if you are not interested in kids. It is just a thought. Don't fire back at me please. I'm only trying to understand and share it with you.
tiki Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Patty's not the firing back type...and I can tell by her typing that she's disturbed by this situation. He speaks Spanish, no English. She cannot speak Spanish. Her friend can. Her friend has always been a little flakey when it comes to this guy. Patty, cut him off. Think Ryan Seacrest.
quankanne Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 she's pure evil, Patty, and she's messing with your mind. I hope your guy is loyal, that he recognizes that and stands by you! if he doesn't, think of it this way: he will expect her to be his friend and not turn on him the way she turned on you, and he'll have a big wake-up call when she stabs him in the back for the first time. Then he'll realize what a good person you are -- and she's not, and that you're definitely worth more than a million like her. chin up, patty-cakes ... in the end, the good guy wins even when he has to go through a lot of crap before winning. Which makes it all the more sweeter when he does win. She can't be this evil without it backfiring on her! on a different subject now: have you had any luck finding Spanish language classes or maybe someone willing to tutor you? quank
Author Patty Posted October 29, 2004 Author Posted October 29, 2004 Thanks everyone for the replies.I appreciate it. on a different subject now: have you had any luck finding Spanish language classes or maybe someone willing to tutor you? No,I havent found a Spanish class yet,although I do have some books and cds and it has helped me to communicate a little better then I did.I remember more and more words and phrases.I still cant speak it fluently yet though.I only wish I could find some classes that I could take.His sister will sometimes point at objects and tell me them in Spanish when Im at her place sometimes.Id like to take a class that will help me learn faster.I just dont know where to take classes at. chin up, patty-cakes ... in the end, the good guy wins even when he has to go through a lot of crap before winning. Which makes it all the more sweeter when he does win. She can't be this evil without it backfiring on her! I really hope he will see what a good person I am.Im just afraid she will tell him something untrue about me.She could lead him on too and tell him lies about me and I dont trust her. Thanks for the advice. Patty
Author Patty Posted October 30, 2004 Author Posted October 30, 2004 Got some good news. Today before I left to go home my guy was calling out my name and he gave me some kisses before I left and each one lasted about twenty seconds.So I'm feeling kind of relieved after thinking my friend was all over him.It just feels like such a relief and that moment made my day. Patty
Stone Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 Patty, I am so glad you posted!! We've missed you very much. I am glad to see things are working out with you and your b/f, obviously if he gave you sweet little kisses then he is still in to you... How do you guys communicate?
ziggue Posted October 30, 2004 Posted October 30, 2004 This reminds me of one of my friends friend. One of my friends had this friend that she hung out with who seemed to always act funny whenever guys got involved with my friend. My friend has a new guy that she is seeing at the moment. Her friend was going out with one of his friends. They went out to a club one night. Her friend was dirty dancing with her guy. My friend said she could take that. Also my friend said her friend told her she thought she saw him kissing another girl. The next day my friends boyfriend rang her up and put her on speaker phone. Her friend was there at her boyfriends place not knowing that the speaker phone was on. He asked her did she like him? She goes I've always liked you better then your mate. I've always wanted to **** you instead of him. Then he asked her if she saw him with another girl at the club and she said she only thought she saw him with another girl but it probably wasn't him. My friend heard the whole thing on speaker phone and totally went off at her friend. Now they aren't speaking to eachother. Her friend has been sending her phone messages but my friend hasn't replied to any. She got busted. That was a pretty good trick her boyfriend thought of to get her too fess up to her lies. I thought. Are you still talking to your friend? I wouldn't if she was trying to hurt me like that. I agree with Stoneheather if he is giving you sweet little kisses he is still into you! Ooh a spanish guy. Spanish guys are hot. Go Patty. .
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