wsid Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 (edited) To catch anyone that has not read my other two threads I am moving to be closer to the person I have been in a LDR for the last 5 months But I am a bit confussed we had talked about this for some time and as it got closer she became hesitant and wondered if we "I" was doing the right thing moving there. we seemed to get all that worked out and the move back on tract I should be there a week form sunday But all this week we have had limited phone calls and text we use to skype every night for an hour or so this week twice maybe 20 min each time I am really confussed when I was not moving there and we were just a LDR she had alll the time in the world for me but now that its set for me to go there I have suddenly found myself on the back burner. I am well aware once I do get there we are just going to be dating not moving in together or anything like that. She has her life a child at home , full time job ect. The purpose of the move was really to me is only to shorten the distance. I guess I am hoping someone that has been in her position could give me some insight as to the change. Edited July 27, 2013 by wsid
ExpatInItaly Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Have you ever met her? It's possible she already has a special someone and is now panicking because you're actually going there. Or, she might not be as invested in this as she once thought. Some people like the idea of having some company online, but once reality hits, they're not prepared to move forward. Who first suggested the move?
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