Jenny1234 Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 After a heart breaking breakup after 2.5 years .. 3 months out now. Still hurting. I've come to think... Maybe not. Maybe I wasn't meant to find the one...maybe I'm not meant to get married...maybe I'm not meant to have a baby ....maybe I'm not meant to live the traditional white picket fence life I've always wanted ....maybe it's just not in my cards Maybe the love and support I have my from family and friends is enough and all god really has for me I hate to compare my lives to others but all my friends are married and have kids or are having kids. I'm no less of a good person but I just have crappy luck and have been through hell and back So maybe not!
Author Jenny1234 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 I still have some hope and am not to giving up but I'm starting to accept it I guess
Philosoraptor Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Just because one relationship doesn't work doesn't mean you're not meant to have your dreams come true. Just means that wasn't the time or person to make those dreams come true with. But you're on to something. If you find yourself fulfilled by what you already have and with yourself, you are much more likely to be patient enough to find the right mate to spend your life with. As if you're worried that these things "may not be in the cards", you are more likely to make a rash and unwise decision.
Author Jenny1234 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 I've had 4 serious longterm BFs I we the years. They've all come back after breakups and admitted they've made a mistake which in the end never changed anything and they all married the next person they dated. Which really makes me wonder. I'm sure it will only be time before the last one runs away and marries someone. I wouldn't be shocked at this point in my life. All I can do is focus on me and "hope" some day I find the right one. The one thing I learned from the last one is ill never waste more than 1 year with a bf again
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