Sasa123 Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 So before me and my boyfriend split, I lived with him and his friend. His friend helped me out with school stuff etc, and became a good friend for me as well. I've been taking a math class and I found ALL of his notes on my pc, it was meant as a help for me, when I was still with my ex, but wasn't relevant at that time. Now it's exactly that kind of notes I need, and it would be very helpful for me. I want to thank him and make sure it's okay, since its his personal notes, but I don't know if it would seem like I try to get in touch with him to get to my ex. It's four month ago we split, and I still miss my ex a lot. I don't know if contact with his best friend will set me back or something like that, or if it will seem weird to contact him. I just don't feel like using his notes without him knowing it.
Philosoraptor Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 He already knew you had them and I doubt he would think "oh she split with my friend, she better have deleted those notes!". Don't lie to yourself, you want to make contact with his friend as a way of checking up on your ex. Just use the notes and don't worry about it. Or delete the notes and learn it the old fashioned way.
Author Sasa123 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 Yes. You're right, sometimes it's difficult to see when I'm lying to myself... It just makes me sad that its also wrong to contact the friends. Especially this one.. I know it's HIS friend, but I lived with him and its seems so superficial to just write off all the friends of his, because of a breakup. Inviv_girl - He was the dumper.
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