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Should I text him this, or not.


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So I posted my story "boyfriend of 5 years now distant" read that if you want to give me advice. Basically to sum it up he broke up with my about 16 days ago to "find himself" blah blah, and we talked once through text, I ended the conversation. He deleted me as a friend on Facebook. Then last night he adds me on snap chat???? He is so playing games with my head. I really want to text him this PLEASE give me advice if you think it is a good idea, or if I should not bother. Oh yea I added him on snap chat because I thought I could handle it, and then deleted him because I do not want to see that he is snap chatting with other girls because I am trying to heal and move on and of course I still care.

 

***My text I want to send:

I can't believe I'm texting you this. It's just it has been on my mind since last night...you delete me as a friend on facebook and then add me as one on snap chat? We are not even on talking terms right now, and It was just so random that you added me. We broke up and you haven't talked to me since so I don't get why you would add me. It is hard enough not talking to you, so please do not play games with me.

 

 

I sort of think me deleting him, he will get the picture but at the same time I really want to know his motives for this.

 

ADVICE !!!!!

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Delete him on everything and don't make any sort of contact. Focus on yourself and healing right now. The only answers you need will come internally.

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...... I really want to know his motives for this.

 

ADVICE !!!!!

 

Motives have no relevance.

The action says it all.

Don't send, and go complete No Contact.

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No, don't text him. All these dumb app. playing games mean nothing when you need to pay attention to just ONE SOLID FACT -- HE DUMPED YOU.

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