jonnykino Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 So my ex went out with some guy who treated her horrible. Mind you, this was when she was about 15/16. She was with him for like two years. Then summer 2011, she's 19, starts seeing some guy she met through some worship event. They went out for a year, she claims he wanted to get married but she didn't want to. She finished in June 2012 I think, then I meet her in September. October she says she likes me, November we start going out. My other thread in reconciliation describes our relationship more so, but we split in mid January. A week later she dates someone, then ends it. Then early February she dates someone else but apparently he calls it off. March she starts getting closer with one of her friends, but she then starts dating her other best guy friend in March. April she then pursues the other friend and come May she's in a relationship with him. She tells me she loves him etc. and she now realises what love is - not what we had - ours was only lust, but I don't know if she just said that to hurt me. But either way, a mutual friend has said she's now split up with this new guy but I'm not sure yet. If she has, she's at some worship event with him - not together, just that's what they go to every year. I don't know what will happen between them, or if she'll start looking for someone else.... But my question is, are these guys all rebounds after me? Was I a rebound? Or what?
Philosoraptor Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Regardless of who was a rebound, it's pretty clear she isn't sure what she wants and doesn't seem emotionally mature enough for a committed relationship. If you want something stable, stay away from her. If you want a wild ride just wait in line, seems like it wont be long until someone else gets a turn.
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