OverThinker72 Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Yesterday was such a great day. It's been nearly 2 weeks since the break up and was starting to feel positive. I even ate a bit and had lots of laughs. So why does it feel like I'm going through day 1 all over again today? It hurts to breathe and I feel so helpless. I want to scream this pain out!!! I'm tired and bored of this. I'm doing the No Contact thing but scared of failing. Please don't tell me to join a gym lol. I just need to know this will get better. Please x
supaflyz Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 This is normal my friend. I'm going on 3 months. There are bad and good days. Everyone wants instant gratification, but that isn't how it works. I was confuse by this as well during the first month or so. She was the one that I actually really love so it took a toll on me. There were times that I thought I would go crazy. I just couldn't stop my mind of thinking about her or of random things. Even going to get some tacos or going to a certain store will trigger some memories of the things we use to do together. It does get better. Speaking of tacos, I want to get some tomorrow lol.
NomiMalone Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 I'm a little further along the healing path to you, at week 5 (and yes I did go to the gym ) And looking back, I can report that, slowly but surely, week by week, I've felt a little better. It's normal to have your ups and your downs, but sticking to NC works wonders (I've requested NC from my partner and even though he doesn't always comply, I feel stronger on the days he doesn't contact me.) Don't be hard on yourself, treat yourself well, and hang in there!
NomiMalone Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Supaflyz, well done on the tacos! I can't wait till the day I can go to those places we used to go together too. Even mcdonalds is off limits now :/ 1
Author OverThinker72 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 Thank you guys. It's just been a bad day but looking forward to the good ones. Just right now I'm feeling devastated and lonely. I just can't believe how I am letting this affect me so much. It's a hot Friday night and here I am doing nothing but thinking. Nothing can take my mind of it right now. Cheers for the comforting words x
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