Author luvflower Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 Just don't give him the opportunity to take it anymore. oh I don't think that'll be an issue anymore , seriously. but you'd be absolutely right! thanks!
TaraMaiden Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Oh, okay, that's clearer now, thanks for adding that. Yup, in that case, hopefully, he's got the message. I'm sure you have a lesson learnt there too though! (Never give your pass to an ass!)
Author luvflower Posted July 27, 2013 Author Posted July 27, 2013 Oh, okay, that's clearer now, thanks for adding that. Yup, in that case, hopefully, he's got the message. I'm sure you have a lesson learnt there too though! (Never give your pass to an ass!) lol@ last quote.certainly. I've definitely learned a lesson also in trusting my first instincts. he showed signs of being very controlling from the beginning. thanks.
Author luvflower Posted July 28, 2013 Author Posted July 28, 2013 yep! good thing you dumped him. OP, do you feel like he may do anything dumb at this point? If your gut says yes, definitely take heed to what mtber75 mentioned about precautions... I'd say regardless, watch your surroundings. Also, how did you meet if you Dont mind my asking. Hi. No I don't mind you asking. We met in a grocery store actually. We were looking for the same veggies and struck up a conversation. He fished about whether I was single or not or married. I was very evasive and left the conversation. He literally walked back over to me to get a clear answer. Found out we went to nearby colleges. I still think he seemed a bit weird in that store as if he had been watching me.
surferchic Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 ok. thanks for sharing. sounds like he's persistent and gets his ego hurt easily. not trying to scare you, but watch your surroundings.
Simon Phoenix Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 And why did you start dating this guy in the first place? I think you need to work on your screening process.
Yookie Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 Oh, okay, that's clearer now, thanks for adding that. Yup, in that case, hopefully, he's got the message. I'm sure you have a lesson learnt there too though! (Never give your pass to an ass!) LOL!!!!!!!!:lmao:
Author luvflower Posted July 28, 2013 Author Posted July 28, 2013 And why did you start dating this guy in the first place? I think you need to work on your screening process. not sure why I gave him that much of my time and energy. perhaps for the attention..just being honest. he was nice and cute just a bit over the top. but you're right,yes I do need a better screening process. that's one reason I'm here in LS. thanks
surferchic Posted July 28, 2013 Posted July 28, 2013 And why did you start dating this guy in the first place? I think you need to work on your screening process. dido that. OP, give yourself more credit in terms of deserving better and not having to put up with someone who wants to control vs care for you. there's a difference.
Author luvflower Posted July 29, 2013 Author Posted July 29, 2013 yes, you're right. even in the humor in this thread I agree that of course I should be more selective. but seriously, one ddoesn't always know that a person is going to do something dumb like keep a parking pass...
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