Matt Joseph Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 So I'll get right to he point I have worked at a summer camp now for 3 years (14-17) and for the past two years my other counselor has been the same girl. I have always found her attractive and with it being only us two in the group this year we have grown really close and have become good friends, and as soon as I am feeling that we have known eachother enough that I should ask her out she tells me about her new boyfriend. Honestly I can't sleep at night because the thought pisses me off. I want to be happy for her but whenever she turns our conversations into her date with him I want to freak. I don't know what to do, I know her previous 2 relationships didn't work out and she was heartbroken and depressed, and I feel like a complete ******* because deep down I want that to happen to her again. I don't know what to do because I know she would "hangout" with me enough to the point of her calling me her boyfriend because we do that already let alone the 9 hours I spend with her everyday during the 8 week work period over the summer. Any Advice??
TheGuard13 Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Has she ever expressed any romantic interest in you?
Author Matt Joseph Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 Yes. I remember her saying (while we were on the topic of the worst sweet sixteens) she said that a girl shows interest/want to a guy if she pats his back and smiles. It was weird but four days later she did the exact same thing to me and that's how it got started, we went out to horror movies where I put my arm around her and she would cuddle up next to me when she got scared and pretty much just all this one on one alone time lately especially when we went out to a fancy dinner 2 weeks ago and we walked out to my car with my arm around her, I mean ugh it's just really getting to me lately.
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