FrustratedGuy91 Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Girl I stopped seeing bc she was friend zoning me finally asks me out again after many other subtle attempts. She goes "you wouldn't go out for a drink, would you?". I told her "With whom?" she answered she'd try to convince some of our friends with whom she had gone out yesterday. (Making it clear she wanted to be just the two of us). Should I accept? It's been almost 2 months already since I last saw her...
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 If you really like her accept ....if you dont like her dont go.....best wishes...deb
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 I do, and we were kinda FWB but for reasons I completely understand she started friendzoning me. So I told her I didn't wanna be there (in the FZ). For those same reasons I never got to tell her I was developing feelings for her... And oh surprise she asked some of our friends and none could go... odd huh?
aloneinaz Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Have you confronted her about you felling "friend zoned?" Maybe you have that conversation with her first and if she convinces you she hasn't, then you go.
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 Have you confronted her about you felling "friend zoned?" Maybe you have that conversation with her first and if she convinces you she hasn't, then you go. As I said, I did tell her. She gave me a good reason why, probably the only acceptable one. Anyway, for that same reason she gave me I never told her I had feelings for her. I was pretty straight forward. I told her, we talked about it and I told her I thought it'd be best if we didn't go out for some time, at least not the two of us. Anyway, she doesn't know I have feelings for her, but I guess she could guess...
aloneinaz Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 As I said, I did tell her. She gave me a good reason why, probably the only acceptable one. Anyway, for that same reason she gave me I never told her I had feelings for her. I was pretty straight forward. I told her, we talked about it and I told her I thought it'd be best if we didn't go out for some time, at least not the two of us. Anyway, she doesn't know I have feelings for her, but I guess she could guess... Only you know how she truly feels about you. If you really like her, then stick your neck out and tell her you'd like to date her only. I would. What's the worst that came happen? Rejection? Hell, we all deal with that. Go to drinks with her (if you're going to be alone) and tell her how you feel.
Imported Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 I have had some occasions where I was a bit upset with a particular person and we're suppose to go out and I am thinking maybe I shouldn't go because I am upset with them....that girl broke one of my rules! Rule #167, sub-section B. It's like she didn't even bother reading my mind and behaving how I want her to behave!.........everytime I decided to just let go of being upset and go, I was happy with my choice and I always think in the back of my mind that I am glad I am here.
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 Ok, to clarify she started friendzoning me because she¿s bi-sexual. But she never had a chance to explore that part of her, due to many reasons, such as an extremely religious family. By the time I left her, she was trying things with a few girls but wasn't doing very well... That's why I didn't tell her.
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