Willusmile Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 So I was recently dumped by my BF of 5 years. More detail in my other forum post. Anyway I have completely moved out of our apartment and back with my parents. I have had no contact with him since last Monday. He has not texted me this entire time. However today he texted me asking me about the new game system I had bought. I assume he saw it on my Facebook, since I've haven't blocked him, I just hid his updates from myself. My question is what the heck is this? He hasn't texted me since he came back from his vacation, and now he's texting me asking me about a game system? The direct message is "Did you buy a new PS3 or an used one?" As of yet I haven't responded. I'm very confused though. Why does he care about this? Is this just a breadcrumb? What should I do?
jesse93 Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 my guess is hes trying to come up with any conversation he can to talk to you so he asked a dumb question like that, you shouldn't bother responding to him if you truly want to get over him block him on all social networks delete his number and every other way you can contact him, and go NC i'm sure he will try to contact you again if you didn't respond. you just have to ignore him and move on talking to him won't help you at all. 1
Author Willusmile Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 I guess I will have to block him. In fairness though I did have a weak moment about 2 weeks back and texted him that I missed him and wanted to see him. However he did not respond to me and then he left on vacation. So I took it as a sign that he was moving on and that's when I decided to go NC. I also decided not to see him since I figured it would be a bad idea. So I do feel a little guilty for sending him conflicting signals.
blotter Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Don't feel guilty, you are allowed to have weak moments, learn from it, go NC and move on.
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