wideawake0310 Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 just got back into the dating scene and just wondering on your experience, how many times a week do you see the other person? i went out first time last week with this guy that i met, and we hit it off right away. we've been texting too almost every day. but i want to see him again, but dont want to come off as needy. he hasn't asked me yet for another date. should i just wait?
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Just do what feels right and don't overthink things. All overthinking does is cause you to play games, mostly with yourself. When me and my fiancee started dating we would see each other a couple times a week. It slowly increased and eventually she moved in. Just have to go with the flow and do what feels right for you.
Miss_raptor Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Depends on schedules and whatnot. Ideally: we see each other 3-4 times a week. When he's teaching and I'm in school/working, it's more like 1-2 times. We've been seeing each other off and on for about 9 months.
Treasa Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Oh crap, every morning when he wakes me up and says, "Morning, beautiful," while I'm packing my lunch sometimes, when we're driving to work together, when we're driving home together (we carpool), and then we occasionally will hang out on purpose together, if you can imagine it. Lots of times, though, we'll do our own thing in other rooms from each other, and maybe just watching wrestling or a movie or play a game together.
lishadenise Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 When you're just starting out, once a week is good and it should increase naturally from there. Don't be afraid to suggest an outing. Men like women to take the lead sometimes. 1
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