Divasu Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 That is extremely odd. The reasoning he provided combined with the artifacts you found in the kitchen, um... If he likes/wants to be nostalgic and create memories together, wouldn't you prefer those memories are unique and exclusive to just the two of you?
aloneinaz Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Hum.. I just hope the next weird thing he does isnt talking in a weird voice and saying "It puts the lotion on its skin"... LOL 1
dasein Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Great idea for a Lifetime Movie of the Week. Boy meets girl, romance ensues, boy gets her to sign her name on something plastic "to remember you." Girl's best friend is murdered. Police come knocking. Her DNA is at the scene, on the knife, and a "hate note" with her name has been found. Handwriting analysis confirms it's her signature. She is found guilty, imprisoned for life. Goes insane... spooky padded cell scene with straitjacket, torn out hair and crazy googlyeyes. The other half of the movie, three girls in HS. Two mean girls pick on the weak, sweet member of the group. She goes to the principal, gets the mean girls in trouble. Mean girls start bullying her, kill her cat, scrawl "Think twice" in cat blood on her mirror. She comes unhinged, kills herself. Her little 7 y.o. brother sees all this. Fast forward to a closet, the camera pans into a coat hanger with a smudged signature on it. Then to a table, strands of hair, fingernail clippings in a small jar... business cards on the table. Below the business name "Think Twice LLC" is a man's name, the dead girl's brother's name, president of the company. Fade to a cemetery. A man with his back to the camera is standing in front of a tombstone. We can't see the inscription. He lays a rose on the grave and walks off. Scene blurs. Ghostly music plays. Credits roll. 1
jcrew11 Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Its a strange request and kinda rude. How old is he? If you are casually dating, but if you want to marry this guy, don't sign your name - because then he'll just group you into all his other past flings, and move onto his next conquest. You can sign the coat hanger after you are married.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 I've never heard of such a thing... but my mind was (is, really) open to the possible sentiment to it all. It would help, obviously, if he didn't have a long arrest record relating to forgery. I'm still leaning toward... it's innovative and unique, and there is just something to the way he describes it, which makes it sound sweet. (yet of course, if he shut off all contact, esp. for some amount of time, after your decline... well then, there is something else behind it entirely)
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 The way he approached you on the street and then did this "notch-like" behavior together doesn't sit well with me. I also imagine you're in a vulnerable emotional state having suddenly lost your sister, and more inclined to get attached to someone being sweet to (aka playing) you. I'm sorry for your loss. Far more weird than anything the OP has written to date, is the implication that somehow the then-random guy on the street might have had advance awareness of the impending death of the sister, and for that reason, swooped in to milk the OP for the coveted signature on a coat hanger during the time when she was most vulnerable. In order to get us to buy-into that one, you first need to unearth the (undoubtedly huge) value in the signature, so as to have a motive for such a scheme.
ChessPieceFace Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Maybe he was done with you and wanted you to sign that before you left that night? That's what I'm thinking. He wants you to carve the notch in the bedpost before he dumps you. Gross. But I would expect nothing less from a guy who did a cold approach of a random girl he found hot walking past on a city street. 1
The Way I Am Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Jokes about the guy being creepy are one thing, but how about we don't include the deaths of relatives in the joking ok?
k1rsty Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 You've met via a cold approach pickup on the street and you've only known him for about 3 months. My question is what and how much do you know about this guy - what does he do (job/school), do you know about his friends/family, and just his general background? I don't want to sound rude but there's something just plain off there, at 'best' he could just be a weirdo with a Casanova complex. At worst this creepy behavior of his could be one of the signs of a dangerous sociopathic personality. If you still want to see him I'd suggest doing a bit of background checking on him.
dasein Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Jokes about the guy being creepy are one thing, but how about we don't include the deaths of relatives in the joking ok? You are right about that, and I totally missed the sister's death in the OP or subsequent posts. OP, I didn't mean to make any kind of reference to your bereavement in my jokey movie of the week post, apologize profusely for not reading your OP more carefully, and am sorry for your loss.
mesmerized Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 You haven't heard from him since, enough said. I think he just keeps track of women he bangs and maybe he had decided in his head that tuesday was your last night together.
Star Gazer Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Far more weird than anything the OP has written to date, is the implication that somehow the then-random guy on the street might have had advance awareness of the impending death of the sister, and for that reason, swooped in to milk the OP for the coveted signature on a coat hanger during the time when she was most vulnerable. In order to get us to buy-into that one, you first need to unearth the (undoubtedly huge) value in the signature, so as to have a motive for such a scheme. Uh yeah, I didn't imply that he knew she was going to pass...at all. I said that she was in a more vulnerable state. 1
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 Uh yeah, I didn't imply that he knew she was going to pass...at all. I said that she was in a more vulnerable state. Sure you implied that the guy knew the sister was soon to pass. Unless you can explain, with some logic, just what else "playing her" implied?? So far, we have "signature on a coat hanger". Now unless you can come up with a purpose, perhaps out of your hat, for such a horrifically deceitful request, then you have indeed implied that she was being "played" for some other big reason, and the one you cited was her vulnerability as the result of her having suddenly lost her sister. So c'mon... what IS the big purpose for which you suggest the OP has been played??? (the rest of us don't know whether she has or would have been played at all - only you seem to know such a thing)
The Way I Am Posted July 27, 2013 Posted July 27, 2013 SOG, I was trying to be polite about what I assumed must be an inappropriate joke because what you suggested was so out there. But maybe you're serious and just being inappropriate. I can't tell what you're trying to get at, but speculation on some crazy conspiracy involving the OP's sister's death or joking a crazy conspiracy or about what you think was the suggestion of that conspiracy is really insensitive. As for Star Gazer's post, she pretty clearly only suggesting the possibility that OP was in a fragile emotional state shortly after she met this guy and he took advantage of it to get her into bed. I don't know where you pulled your crazy theory from, but it wasn't from Star Gazer. OP, did you message him to see about talking?
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